what really grinds your gears?

[Ekwarph]

Judging people who want to leave GS and not taking 5 minutes out of your own day to understand why.

Sometimes all these people need to hear from you is 'Are you OK?' and 'Is there anything I can do to help?'

Some people give so much of themselves behind the scenes that some of you selfish people who help others in full glare of your peers solely to get a pat on the back for 'doing a nice thing' don't understand the value of people like James, MrTinkles, Mum and a handful of other selfless people that at times over invest their emotions into helping people.

what you think are STPID reasons are cries for help FFS so get over your own selfish needs for pats on the back for being a nice person.

<--- Officially pissed off.

I won't be that extreme to say it's "being selfish". But I kinda agree with you.

Is leaving gs a bad thing? I'm not sure, that means that you can live without this virtual substitute.
I may generalize, but my experience in forums when I had my problems, and now when I am well...more or less okay in my life : when everything is okay in your life, that kind of forums is bonus, just a cool time to spend, meeting nice people and everything.
When (general) you come here to find help, to talk about your problems, it may generate an addiction and it may lead on avoiding problems in real life. I think in that moment, taking distance with the forum is necessary (and then you come back).

For a long time, I talked about my problems in another forum, I thought it helped me but in fact, I was kinda closed in this forum, and IRL, I was the same dumbass, no change.

[Evan88]

As for southbiochem, he knows much of the story behind mbennet35 and jovial...the discussion is not as superficial as some of you may think... He doesnt need any pats on his back. And he doesnt need nice comments from people by helping others

And im sure, him telling jovial and mbennet35 have stupid reasons for leaving is not offensive for the 2 persons cause we know a lot about each other, On and Off GS...

I know Omar better...

[dfiant1]

If it was personalized, do you think I would be shy about mentioning you personal south?

And if you feel the cap fits, then that is your problem, not mine.

So you are here to make people feel better, but you judge their reasons as STUPID??? That will make them feel a whole lot better about themselves...you know, considering that they are considering self deletion for trivial reasons according to YOU because you obviously have no empathy for the depth of dispair that people are in to get to that point...so what do you do? Kick them in the guts when they are down. <----THAT is aimed at YOU Southbiochem.

I have had my say and I am leaving it at that because the shits I gave just flew out the door.

The end

[southbiochem]

hmmmm......well, having no empathy would mean I wouldn't even waste time on any of these guys, but hey, let's go with your definition of things...you're like a God here and I'm just a dumb kid.

I still hold you in high regard, dfiant, nevermind how little you care about this fact..

[mbennet35]

dfiant just lay off of South. He and I have a very close friendship. He actually talked me out of leaving GS. South is an amazing guy and friend. SO back off

[dfiant1]

what ever you say

[MisterTinkles]

And what the hell happened to justbry?????

[Evan88]

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[austin]

I hate it when i miss out on all the drama.

[ChadCoxRox]

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