12-16-2013, 01:20 PM
Hey \o/
I have a really mixed up problem and I need advice badly.
Please read all and dont just to immediate conclusions.
~please forgive my grammer, and double post, this one disappeared when I submitted and i was asked to log in (thought it was gone, but appeared today)
-First a bit about me as im brand new here and everywhere, im 23, male, northcaolina college student. I find enjoyment in most everything, I can find appreciation in almost anything IE all music (except depressing, and screaming stuff), very open minded, typically if im in a group im the one up for whatever, and first to jump in the lake.
advice part with bit of a story
A year ago I would identify myself as straight, I was dateing a beutifull girl things were going well. Well about 10 months ago we broke up for reasons I would rather not slander even someone you guys dont know. Just leave it as she messed me up pretty bad (we had been dating for good while) I was incredibly lonely for about two months I was just about to look for someone else when she showed up at my door saying she would change, and I trusted her again. Needless to say not only was my faith misplaced what happened next ripped my soul out. I have hardly looked at a girl after that point a little over 8 months ago I have no attraction towards females, I understand not all are like this, in fact, few are like this, I have thought about the circumstances and relived the event over and over and things have never been the same and after this long I dont think they will.
It was about four months after our breakup I started noticeing guys when going into a gym, or on the trail at campus similar feelings I had for the fairer sex previously had swapped. Im not going into detail here. Its haunted me for months and a couple nights ago I had and erotic dream but not with a female. I really am lost on what to do, I have always been open minded to things and very chill but most of my friends are not, family is DEFINATLY not. I have never heard of this happening before should I see a phsychiatrist? I dont know how I would identify myself bi, gay? Im very sorry for the long post I just feel soo lost right now, the dream was a breaking point I feel like i need(ed) to talk to someone.
Please any advice is greatly GREATLY appreciated.
I have a really mixed up problem and I need advice badly.
Please read all and dont just to immediate conclusions.
~please forgive my grammer, and double post, this one disappeared when I submitted and i was asked to log in (thought it was gone, but appeared today)
-First a bit about me as im brand new here and everywhere, im 23, male, northcaolina college student. I find enjoyment in most everything, I can find appreciation in almost anything IE all music (except depressing, and screaming stuff), very open minded, typically if im in a group im the one up for whatever, and first to jump in the lake.
advice part with bit of a story
A year ago I would identify myself as straight, I was dateing a beutifull girl things were going well. Well about 10 months ago we broke up for reasons I would rather not slander even someone you guys dont know. Just leave it as she messed me up pretty bad (we had been dating for good while) I was incredibly lonely for about two months I was just about to look for someone else when she showed up at my door saying she would change, and I trusted her again. Needless to say not only was my faith misplaced what happened next ripped my soul out. I have hardly looked at a girl after that point a little over 8 months ago I have no attraction towards females, I understand not all are like this, in fact, few are like this, I have thought about the circumstances and relived the event over and over and things have never been the same and after this long I dont think they will.
It was about four months after our breakup I started noticeing guys when going into a gym, or on the trail at campus similar feelings I had for the fairer sex previously had swapped. Im not going into detail here. Its haunted me for months and a couple nights ago I had and erotic dream but not with a female. I really am lost on what to do, I have always been open minded to things and very chill but most of my friends are not, family is DEFINATLY not. I have never heard of this happening before should I see a phsychiatrist? I dont know how I would identify myself bi, gay? Im very sorry for the long post I just feel soo lost right now, the dream was a breaking point I feel like i need(ed) to talk to someone.
Please any advice is greatly GREATLY appreciated.