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Is my friend a total bitch or is it just me?
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austin Wrote:Your friend sounds like maybe a gf . Like if it is tell her your not interested.

Hmm austin are you ok? :eek:
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Luke97 Wrote:...now I'm gonna have to get preached to next week about how I need Jesus in my life, etc...
Like loserguy said, what you need is not Jesus in your life. No offense meant to Jesus, but what you need is a 12 step program. If you're already in a twelve step program with your parents, and were having some measure of success with it, then I can understand why you're upset with your friend, since the teachers at your school may be totally clueless about bulimia. But if you and your parents are trying to go it alone without a twelve step program, nor any professional help (and I suspect this is what is going on), then I'll need to agree that your friend did the right thing.
Luke97 Wrote:Having been bulimic in the past, I have been doing a lot better now and only do it once a month, my parents are well aware of this and my friend knew this too...
She knows that its something I still struggle with nce in a while...
Seriously that was the first time in a month ...

If you were in recovery, you would not say "having been bulimic" - one of the first things you will learn when you get into a proper program, will be that addictions are for life. We can be in recovery, and we can be there for many years. But we can never say "I used to be ..."

Once a month is not a very good recovery rate. The only good recovery rate is never. Your parents should be made aware that they're not doing you any favors, by not getting you into treatment. Bulimia is an addiction. An addiction is not something that you struggle with once in a while, it's a debilitating disease that if attacked head-on, can be defeated. But if your parents, friends, teachers don't make sure you do something about it, chances are you never will. And your friend will be the only blameless one when your disease progresses to the next stage.
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