in my eyes

[dfiant]

Oh look south, your little attention seeking thug is sticking up for you again.

So now what other people appear to say for me reflect I what I believe. cool.

it is not my intention to insult, so I guess those that feel insulted, included yourself, need to look at why you feel so insulted and how what I see as a misrepresentation is your reality

[MisterTinkles]

If you had any conscience or thread of human decency or professional ethics, you would see the problem that this presents. There is too much self diagnosis, there is too much depended on 'friends' for help that needs to be sought professionally, and there is far too much attention seeking behaviour that is making some very loyal Gayspeakers feel unwelcome, uncomfortable, and not wanting to be part of what used to be an awesome community with people who supported and carried each other.
[COLOR="RoyalBlue"]The internet is still a new thing. People really do not know how to use it properly.
Especially those in need, and even more especially though young. Instead of looking for possible professional help, they post their problems on chat sites of all kinds. But if they are willing to help themselves, they will use the information they get to go find some professional help.
We on GS can only say and do so much. Some people on here may seem to go "overboard" or "beyond" some boundaries, but they are only trying to help. People in need usually will try and get all the advice they can from "the street" before taking the next step to professional. Professionals can be expensive and even scary, so young people especially will tend to try and self diagnose as much as possible.[/COLOR]

I really don't care if you or anyone else wants to continue demonising me for saying what a lot of people are thinking and seeing because I don't need to make you or anyone else like me.
I dont think anyone is demonizing you, they just dont understand what all this fuss is really about and why it bothers you so much.

I know what I have done, I know what I have achieved especially by being part of this community, and I am strong enough to know that is enough, what I do and what I continue to do will ALWAYS be enough.
If you know you have achieved so much in helping people, here and elsewhere, then why demonize others for it?

Problem is, it's hard for me to really understand what you are meaning without examples. (I'm an examples kind of person)

Have a nice day

[dfiant]

I have not demonised anyone...I am demonising behaviours that are inappropriate.

Nothing I have said in the OP is to address any person in particular or single any person out from the crowd...the some people are just doing a better job of it themselves than others are

[MisterTinkles]

I have not demonised anyone...I am demonising behaviours that are inappropriate.

Nothing I have said in the OP is to address any person in particular or single any person out from the crowd...the some people are just doing a better job of it themselves than others are

Okay, well........it just seems to be confusing at the moment.

[mbennet35]

Oh look south, your little attention seeking thug is sticking up for you again.

So now what other people appear to say for me reflect I what I believe. cool.

it is not my intention to insult, so I guess those that feel insulted, included yourself, need to look at why you feel so insulted and how what I see as a misrepresentation is your reality

You are just a bully

[dfiant]

Like I said, people are going to assume to know me and what I am trying to say, they are going to misquote and misinterpret...and the new one, use other people words and put them in my mouth and you know what Mrt...I doubt anyone has actually read my OP in it's entirety and stood back and had a think before replying to it.

So all I am seeing is knee jerk reaction to what people have interpretted from what they assum I am trying to say.

I'm just going to let everyone else rip each other throats out now. I know what I meant and I stand by what I have said and don't feel the need to defend myself and makes friends of people who are rather having being or portrayine themselves as enemies .

[dfiant]

You are just a bully

and you are basing that on what my dear child?

[mbennet35]

"Oh look south, your little attention seeking thug is sticking up for you again."

thats being a bully

[dfiant]

if you say so.

You do realise that south is an adult and is quiet capable of speaking for himself and this is not the first time you have interfered right? and you call me a jerk?

[mbennet35]

if you say so.

You do realise that south is an adult and is quiet capable of speaking for himself and this is not the first time you have interfered right? and you call me a jerk?

yep I am a jerk but South has helped me many times. and he is capable of talking for himself. I am just standing up for him because he is my friend