How many of you have decided to be single forever

[BlackBaron]

Only fear of the loneliness can to tie people. Love is not longer than our illusions about each other))

[BlackBaron]

true love is about trying hard and working through the bullshit , and wanting to be with that person even though things might go wrong sometimes.
love is definitely real . true love is also real , but it's nothing like the fictional idea of true love that hollywood likes to fling at people.

Its sounds like trying to reanimate the dying.

[Woollyhats]

Only fear of the loneliness can to tie people. Love is not longer than our illusions about each other))

This is not true. I am a person that likes solitude and doesn't actually have a particularly high or low sex drive, and who lives by the "sometimes it's better to be alone" reality... yet I have someone in my life and I would describe my relationship as rewarding...

Perhaps you don't prefer to have someone with you (or the realities of the society you live in discourage that and you've adapted), but you can't say it is universally true that there aren't people who truly care, and people that love in their relationships.

[BlackBaron]

This is not true. I am a person that likes solitude and doesn't actually have a particularly high or low sex drive, and who lives by the "sometimes it's better to be alone" reality... yet I have someone in my life and I would describe my relationship as rewarding...

Perhaps you don't prefer to have someone with you (or the realities of the society you live in discourage that and you've adapted), but you can't say it is universally true that there aren't people who truly care, and people that love in their relationships.

I'm glad to hear that. Yes it's true. I talk about my own experience. As for me i dont trust to people.

[synonymous]

..no, not forever..

but FIVE-ever because FIVE-ever is longer than FOUR-ever..

duh.

lol, jk.. I'm content with being single, but I'm not gonna close myself off
to the experience and opportunity to be with someone.

[Ryocchi]

The worst thing I've ever done is trying to be with someone I don't love, it only lasted 2 weeks, never done it again.

That said, I'm not in a good place to meet anyone at the moment, but once things have settled down a little I'm not averse to it.

[swalter]

I had always said I'd be a single swinger until the day I died, and that monogamy wasn't in my genes. Then one night about 2 and a half years ago, when I wasn't looking (that's always how I it goes), I met my BF and did a complete 180° turn! Now, I couldn't imagine going back to the single life. Funny how life works out sometimes. :-)

EDIT: Actually, it was a year and a half ago, not 2 and a half years ago. It feels like a lot longer, but I just realized my mistake!

[TwistedxD]

I myself would always say I don't want a relationship, thats not me. That was always a cover though, can't get hurt if you stay single, but it does get lonely. I am happier than I have ever been in my current relationship. All my past relationships have led to me getting hurt, but now things are just perfect. For the longest time I would just not date or anything. Now I can't stand not being with my boyfriend. I hate every minute we are not together.

[Kenny221]

I had always said I'd be a single swinger until the day I died, and that monogamy wasn't in my genes. Then one night about 2 and a half years ago, when I wasn't looking (that's always how I it goes), I met my BF and did a complete 180° turn! Now, I couldn't imagine going back to the single life. Funny how life works out sometimes. :-)

omg that's such a cute story lol

[starbelly]

Bahahaha, um, yeah, it's crossed my mind that I will be terminally single. It actually is kind of depressing, so I choose not to think about it. I know relationships aren't "the most important thing in life" and blah blah blah, but, I can say as someone who's daydreamed about being with a guy since I was like eight years old (I was in LOVE with Leonardo DiCaprio, shoot me), it's pretty important to me. The thought of dying without ever having any sort of romantic love is super fucking depressing to me. So, like I said, I don't think about it. I invest my thought in my studies and research and other things that interest me. Also, the hooking up shit is not my jam. I refuse to have sex with somebody who I don't have some sort of emotional investment in. I need a body and a brain. That's just the way it is. And no, I don't think that's a high standard.