Feeelings for his ex

[Mark]

Idk how to answer that - I guess I would want a relationship with a different person at some point. Until then I would just live my life?

To get beyond this I kind of need/want to know 100% if he see's no possibility of or has any interest in "us" working things out somehow. Maybe most people would just assume there's no chance, give up & forget him?

Maybe most people would. But you aren't most people :p It has to be what you want and not what everyone else tells you to do. You have to get him to talk and decide on something one way or the other.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

The human heart is not a thing that follows reason or logic.

[novice]

Maybe most people would. But you aren't most people :p It has to be what you want and not what everyone else tells you to do. You have to get him to talk and decide on something one way or the other.

HE would talk to me about it if I asked him to. I simply don't know if "painting him into a corner" right now when he himself may have some uncertainty is a good idea or being patient a little while longer might allow him more time (even though he didn't ask for time) to "know" what he even really wants. From day one idk if getting a clear answer is better than leaving it vague or not. Tough tough decision & I have NO idea what the best way to proceed is (or I wouldn't be seeking other's opinions!).