Is my bf really gay?

[dowhatchuwant10]

Yes he does maintain it

[hank]

Yes he does maintain it

Than he is as gay as glitter honey.

[dowhatchuwant10]

Fair enough, maybe i am being unreasonable.

[dowhatchuwant10]

I was just trying to put my thoughts on here and see what u guys think, ill talk to him about it more and tell you what he says.

[hank]

Fair enough, maybe i am being unreasonable.

No, it's natural to have doubts. I like to think him eliminating those doubts you have one by one over time is what makes a relationship strong. I don't know first hand, never made it that far, but it sounds good right?

[hank]

I was just trying to put my thoughts on here and see what u guys think, ill talk to him about it more and tell you what he says.

Did I put your doubts at ease, at least just a little?

[swalter]

Fair enough, maybe i am being unreasonable.

If your boyfriend asked you why masculinity turns you on, how would you answer him? Can we really explain, with any meaning, why we like certain things but not others? You should keep that in mind when asking the same questions of him. Honestly, both of you sound very nice, and perfectly suited to each other. I hope you're able to get past this minor stuff and continue strengthening your relationship. ☺

[dowhatchuwant10]

Its just my insecurity kicking in , before my bf i got rejected by gay men many times for not being masculine enough. I found myself being hit on more by straight women than gay men. I appreciate my bf for not having a cookie cutter idea of a boyfriend like some gay men do.

[swalter]

The first step to resolving your insecurities is to identify and acknowledge them. It sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders, and maybe just need some reassurance that everything is OK. To that end, I hope we've been helpful to you.

[dowhatchuwant10]

Ive talked to him about it and he said that hes attracted to my feminine qualities because it makes him feel more dominant and manly