Is my bf really gay?

[chillythoughts]

I just wish one day femininity wont be seen as inferior to masculinity.

I so agree with you.

[dowhatchuwant10]

I so agree with you.

If you wanna wear women's clothes do it its just fabric at the end of the day.

[chillythoughts]

If you wanna wear women's clothes do it its just fabric at the end of the day.

when I first started reading that comment, I thought it was gonna go else where. lol

and yes, its only fabric cut and stitched.

[dowhatchuwant10]

when I first started reading that comment, I thought it was gonna go else where. lol

and yes, its only fabric cut and stitched.

What do you mean?

[chillythoughts]

What do you mean?

I thought you were gonna insult me or say something so outrageous. but thankfully I read on and my perception of the first couple of words, was wrong.

[dowhatchuwant10]

I thought you were gonna insult me or say something so outrageous. but thankfully I read on and my perception of the first couple of words, was wrong.

Haha, one day a time will come where you will read "if you wanna wear womens clothes.. " and you'll expect it to be something nice.

[Tulloni]

Well the cross-dressing thing could indicate that maybe he's bisexual? I mean there's nothing wrong with being interested in it at all but the fact is I've met loads of gay men (and straights etc) and I can honestly say none of them are into cross-dressing or their partners cross-dressing. Point is it's actually surprisingly rare among most LGBT people. So if a guy asked his boyfriend to dress up I would think 'hang on? maybe he liked girls as well or is attracted to transvestism'? And the original poster was wondering if his partner was straight so let's not rule this possibility out maybe he really does like girls as well?

[dowhatchuwant10]

Well the cross-dressing thing could indicate that maybe he's bisexual? I mean there's nothing wrong with being interested in it at all but the fact is I've met loads of gay men (and straights etc) and I can honestly say none of them are into cross-dressing or their partners cross-dressing. Point is it's actually surprisingly rare among most LGBT people. So if a guy asked his boyfriend to dress up I would think 'hang on? maybe he liked girls as well or is attracted to transvestism'? And the original poster was wondering if his partner was straight so let's not rule this possibility out maybe he really does like girls as well?

I am the Original Poster and what i was actually wondering was that if a gay man can be attracted to femininity. By your logic, Ivorybenz has bisexual tendencies . And my bf doesnt want me to fully dress up as a girl, just panties and stockings.

[chillythoughts]

how exactly does crossdressing have bi-sexual tendencies? it has nothing to do with finding females sexual in any sort of way. do you even understand the concept of people crossdressing? you know, women cross dress too and they are LESBIANS. crossdressing has nothing to do with finding the opposite sex attractive. its more about being comfortable in your own skin and not being someone that society wants. its about being yourself in any retrospect of what anyone has to say about it.

[dowhatchuwant10]

how exactly does crossdressing have bi-sexual tendencies? it has nothing to do with finding females sexual in any sort of way. do you even understand the concept of people crossdressing? you know, women cross dress too and they are LESBIANS. crossdressing has nothing to do with finding the opposite sex attractive. its more about being comfortable in your own skin and not being someone that society wants. its about being yourself in any retrospect of what anyone has to say about it.

When women cross dress, its okay but when guys do its not.

Im not ashamed to dress like a woman, because i dont find it shameful to be a woman - Iggy pop