I'm into the whole lingerie thing as well. Not really bras, but the whole panty thing. It's just fetishy/turn on type of thing. I don't wear them. And I wouldn't care if my bf wore them or not, but when we're "doing the do" it turns me on if they wore them. And statistics are good for anything, but you can't rely on them all the time. I'm not bashing on your knowledge, but just to help you out cause' nothing is ever consistent and if you stay on the belief that it is, then your hopes will usually be stepped on along the way. I have two sisters, and still came out gay. Like I said, he is definately gay. He told you he is. He doesn't enjoy sex with girls. And he does it with you so there's really no indication that he's not gay.
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Cause' it's a personal fetish of mine, and it seems like some people find it wierd lol It just does. Just like I like guys a lot. It has nothing to do with me liking girls. I never had an attraction to girls at all. Not emotionally or sexually. I am curious to see how it is, to be open minded, but I can not imagine myself dating a girl as a long term thing. Everybody is different in bed. People say certain things. Different things turn different people on or off. The fact that he says "boy pussy" shouldn't concern you that he's not gay. I've actually heard that term a lot in some gay porn websites. I feel like there isn't a problem to begin with and he just is who he is.
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Like this. "Studies show that most black people like fried chicken". Sorry for the bad example, but point is, not all black people like fried chicken. Some are vegetarian. Some hate chicken. When it comes to consistency, it's when things happen in frequency. In one week, I work 5 days of the week. Most of the time I drive there. But my sister uses the car sometimes. So Monday through Wednesday I drive there. Thursday through Sunday she uses the car. I'm sorry if it's a bad example lol But what I'm trying to say is don't listen what everybody says. Just becuase that's how usually things are, doesn't mean it will happen all the time.
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Your boyfriend is who he is. It doesn't change his sexuality.
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If you wanna' talk about it, I'd be glad to help. You can private message me :
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OP, after some searching, it seems you've posted this same question on a half a dozen different websites, and have been for some time. Verbatim. What's your deal, bro? Do you really have a BF? Or are so insecure that you have to broadcast your boyfriend's proclivities to anyone who will listen as some sort of warped self-validation? You may think there's something wrong with him, but let me tell you who has the problem: YOU.
Maybe instead of posting this same, repetitive question on every corner of the Internet, you should be a man and have a conversation with your alleged boyfriend. Ask HIM theses questions, and get HIS answers. You come across as incredibly insecure, immature, and petty, with your child-like inability to empathize, and accept sexual interests you don't have.
We've given you the answers, as have others on all these other websites, and your response is the same: you just don't get it, and continue to ask the same shit over and over again. You should be ashamed of yourself for acting in such a childish, mentally stubborn manner. There are people here for legitimate questions and support, and your little narcissistic games belittle and make a mockery of them. Grow up.
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Is my bf really gay?
why do you crossdress?