05-22-2014, 05:45 AM
Ok, so my best friend's brother is, quite literally, the hottest human being to ever walk the face of the earth, and I will not accept any assertions to the contrary! Anyway, I have unfortunately only ever had one interaction with his brother, and it was four years ago and two seconds long and he probably doesn't even remember me.
The point is, he was my first high school crush, a freshman admiring the hot senior from afar thing, and with him being home for the summer I will probably meet him and have my high school experience come full circle... one year after high school has actually ended. Imagine it as being a ginormous fan of Survivor and then meeting Vecepia.... hahaha sike! Richard Hatch or something.
Anyoohoo, the anticipation of finally truly coming face-to-face with this Adonis, this titan of talent, this beast of beauty, this colossus of (insert "c" word I don't feel comfortable typing out for some reason) is making all of the fantasies come about... however, I have realized something.
Even with my longstanding sexual infatuation combining with my rampant teenage hormones, I would under no circumstances whatsoever ever ever ever ever have anything to do with my best friend's brother sexually if he was down for some experimentation.
Why? Well, I love my best friend, and even though he says he would have no issue with me ever getting down with his brother, I think I can safely assume that is a humongous wad of bullshit. If one of my friends hopped on my bro for summer lovin' I'd be.... remiss, a sight unseen sort of thing, but secretly totally disgusted and creeped out. I could never be able to shake the feeling that my best friend would be resentful and uncomfortable no matter how much he claimed otherwise, and my best friend's friendship and feelings mean way more to me than a hot dude, relative to him or otherwise, could ever be.
Sorry, my point is, I have read an alarming number of stories online about people who have ruined friendships by sleeping with their best friend's husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, brother/sister, even mom/dad (I don't judge, but okie dokie then, cougar away, ladies).
So I was wondering, is there a circumstance anyone here can envision where great hookups with a super hot individual was worth a friendship, or if you have done such a thing, do you necessarily regret it. This may sound like a dumb question, but jee willickers there are some un-keen cats roaming around out there, and I would like to gain some perspective on why these people behave this way (also this will come in handy for a summer paper I need to write).
The point is, he was my first high school crush, a freshman admiring the hot senior from afar thing, and with him being home for the summer I will probably meet him and have my high school experience come full circle... one year after high school has actually ended. Imagine it as being a ginormous fan of Survivor and then meeting Vecepia.... hahaha sike! Richard Hatch or something.
Anyoohoo, the anticipation of finally truly coming face-to-face with this Adonis, this titan of talent, this beast of beauty, this colossus of (insert "c" word I don't feel comfortable typing out for some reason) is making all of the fantasies come about... however, I have realized something.
Even with my longstanding sexual infatuation combining with my rampant teenage hormones, I would under no circumstances whatsoever ever ever ever ever have anything to do with my best friend's brother sexually if he was down for some experimentation.
Why? Well, I love my best friend, and even though he says he would have no issue with me ever getting down with his brother, I think I can safely assume that is a humongous wad of bullshit. If one of my friends hopped on my bro for summer lovin' I'd be.... remiss, a sight unseen sort of thing, but secretly totally disgusted and creeped out. I could never be able to shake the feeling that my best friend would be resentful and uncomfortable no matter how much he claimed otherwise, and my best friend's friendship and feelings mean way more to me than a hot dude, relative to him or otherwise, could ever be.
Sorry, my point is, I have read an alarming number of stories online about people who have ruined friendships by sleeping with their best friend's husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, brother/sister, even mom/dad (I don't judge, but okie dokie then, cougar away, ladies).
So I was wondering, is there a circumstance anyone here can envision where great hookups with a super hot individual was worth a friendship, or if you have done such a thing, do you necessarily regret it. This may sound like a dumb question, but jee willickers there are some un-keen cats roaming around out there, and I would like to gain some perspective on why these people behave this way (also this will come in handy for a summer paper I need to write).