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(12-03-2020, 09:55 PM)InbetweenDreams Wrote: @Chase I think you focus on the negative things that people do. There are plenty of good things that people do everyday, even things so little as just being polite to a stranger for no reason at all. Are there sociopaths and narcissists around? Sure there are, you could even argue that it is more prevalent in today's society. We seem to focus on the bad things that people do because it is sensational, we don't as often talk about all the good things people do.
The "plenty" of good things that people do everyday is a grain of sand on the garbage island that is humanity. 99.99999999999999999999999% of humanity is either narcissistic, masochistic, sadistic, sociopathic, or psychopathic. The good in humanity is 0.000000000000000000000001%. Most good is just manipulators covering their bad
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(12-03-2020, 11:06 PM)Chase Wrote: (12-03-2020, 09:55 PM)InbetweenDreams Wrote: @Chase I think you focus on the negative things that people do. There are plenty of good things that people do everyday, even things so little as just being polite to a stranger for no reason at all. Are there sociopaths and narcissists around? Sure there are, you could even argue that it is more prevalent in today's society. We seem to focus on the bad things that people do because it is sensational, we don't as often talk about all the good things people do.
The "plenty" of good things that people do everyday is a grain of sand on the garbage island that is humanity. 99.99999999999999999999999% of humanity is either narcissistic, masochistic, sadistic, sociopathic, or psychopathic. The good in humanity is 0.000000000000000000000001%. Most good is just manipulators covering their bad
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(12-04-2020, 03:00 AM)Bhp91126 Wrote: (12-03-2020, 11:06 PM)Chase Wrote: (12-03-2020, 09:55 PM)InbetweenDreams Wrote: @Chase I think you focus on the negative things that people do. There are plenty of good things that people do everyday, even things so little as just being polite to a stranger for no reason at all. Are there sociopaths and narcissists around? Sure there are, you could even argue that it is more prevalent in today's society. We seem to focus on the bad things that people do because it is sensational, we don't as often talk about all the good things people do.
The "plenty" of good things that people do everyday is a grain of sand on the garbage island that is humanity. 99.99999999999999999999999% of humanity is either narcissistic, masochistic, sadistic, sociopathic, or psychopathic. The good in humanity is 0.000000000000000000000001%. Most good is just manipulators covering their bad
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I wasn't bitching about being single, I was in a bitchy mood because my mom is being sexually harassed at work and one of her stalkers has been sending weird ass threats to both her and me. See, this is why I hate people, you assume I'm a spoiled upper middle class twink complaining about being single when my family has serious problems like this shit.
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Well, I disagree with the proportions.
It is easy to draw conclusions about things, such as assuming what someone thinks of you...especially in the absence of such information.
I agree there are a lot of bad people, people who are neither good or bad, people who are for the sake of this discussion good. Bad people probably do 98% of all the bad things, like sexually harass women, make weird ass threats. If 99% of all people were bad like you say then I should think the human race would have gone extinct a long time ago.
That being said, I'm sorry that you and your mother are having to deal with this kind of crap. I assume complaints against her co-worker haven't done any good and stalkers? Not sure what kind of threats they're making but if it's not already been reported or not but if not definitely do. I know the odds of anything getting done aren't good in general, not factoring in covid 19 and all the crap that has caused. Not sure I have any good advice that probably hasn't already been considered, I got a feeling this has a lot of complicated pieces to it all
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(12-09-2020, 05:59 AM)Meebs Wrote: My energy level the last few months has been almost nonexistent
Sorry to hear that man, any ideas as to why? Diet, sleeping, mental health? I hope you feel better in that regard soon
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I feel ya @ Meebs
This has been a year of suck. Some days are tougher to get going and some days I'm down right in the gutter. Might consider vitamin D, I only say that since we're all spending more time indoors anyway, now we're in winter where it is cold and dark pretty much all the time...at least for those of us in the Northern hemisphere.
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(12-09-2020, 05:59 AM)Meebs Wrote: My energy level the last few months has been almost nonexistent
Sometimes it takes going out just to breathe some fresh air, everyday, to get back some of your energy. I can tell it works for me.
Our energy can have severe swings in difficult times...
Take care of yourself buddy ^^
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