06-08-2014, 10:09 PM
Anonymous Wrote:So I'm usually not into hook-ups, but some time ago I went to the gay club and there I met this guy. He's actually not my type at all, I like brunets and he's blonde, but somehow I liked him very much. We both liked each other and so we went to his place and had very nice and hot sex.
Next morning I got up to leave and he asked for my phone number. I asked why does it need it and he said he'd like to meet me again, to have a cup of coffee together or something. He seemed like a nice guy and I thought that maybe some kind of friendship might grow out of it. I gave him my number and the next day we had lunch together and some more times. We talked and got know each other closer and then he asked if I have a boyfriend. I said I don't and he said he'd like very much to be my man. He claimed he's been looking for somebody to spend his life with for a long time. I was flattered that he has appreciated me and seen a potential boyfriend in me, however I said I'm not interested. I'm not a relationship person, never had them, I need lots of freedom and private life. I don't want to share my life with anyone and yes, you might also say that I'm immature and careless person. But I'm satisfied with my life.
I offered him to be friends, but he says it's not enough. Then I said that we probably shouldn't see each other again, because he apparently wants something I cannot give him, but he said I wants to see me and he likes a me a lot and wants to be my partner. I like him too, but I don't want to be together with him. That's too much for me. He's a very nice person, but I don't want a boyfriend. I also offered him to meet for just sex, he doesn't want that, he wants complete relationship. He says I'm important for him. I don't want to hurt him, but how to refuse him in a way he understands nothing will be between us?
Not into hook-ups and not a relationship person? Then how do you describe yourself?
and are you the same person who started the thread about being a hypocrite?