How to stop pissing people off?

[artyboy]

Hmmmmm

I feel I have been pissing people off quite a lot in the past week or two.

So any ideas to how I could come across a little better or I am just seeing things?

[East]

You haven't pissed me off......

[ChadCoxRox]

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure when it comes to interpersonal interactions. If you feel it, then what were the thoughts the preceded? Those thoughts (YOURS) are based on your own perceptions and values. Based on those thoughts you tell yourself "stuff" about the situation based on your beliefs and perceptions. AND based on that "self talk" you feel certain feelings.

So whomever your making angry might could give you feedback about how you came across or maybe even enlighten you to find you were off-base.

As for assholes, if it looks like one and smells like one, it probably is one. So fuck it.

[matty7]

you don't piss me off mate - you can be blunt and to the point but that doesn't bother me ... it may some people though , that's how you post so I don't se a reason to change - you've not been rude to anyone as far as I can see so no problem

[artyboy]

I wont change then

I'm only to the point as I cant spell it any other way as my spelling is crap. I feel that some times what I have typed is totally different to the point I'm trying to get at.

Not sure of any other ways around that though lol!

[VidasParalelas]

Smile more.....

[Uneunsae]

Don't stop talking about controversial topics just because a few people might get upset. My opinions aren't usually very popular, but it doesn't mean I should never have a voice.

[Ammon]

Why would you be something you're not?

[Cuddly]

Not gonna lie, it annoyed me a bit that you had a few slightly whiny threads in rapid succession. The first being the "date a disabled person" and the second being "gays are shallow".

Naturally, you're not entirely to blame for that, I am just ever so slightly fed up with the number of whiny posts.
And I realise that's a bit blunt, but it's late and I'm tired and those are my actual feelings. So since you asked, I thought I'd answer <3

Here are a couple of threads that I consider whiny:
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?p=448148#post448148
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?p=448537#post448537
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?p=448415#post448415
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?p=448296#post448296

There's just a lot of "my life sucks and I'm ugly and will never get a date and it always rains" and it annoys me... Ofcourse, those threads have as much right to be here as this reply has and I wouldn't want it any other way, but dayum my frustration had to go somewhere and it ended up going here. Sorry Arty

[artyboy]

Not gonna lie, it annoyed me a bit that you had a few slightly whiny threads in rapid succession. The first being the "date a disabled person" and the second being "gays are shallow".

Naturally, you're not entirely to blame for that, I am just ever so slightly fed up with the number of whiny posts.
And I realise that's a bit blunt, but it's late and I'm tired and those are my actual feelings. So since you asked, I thought I'd answer <3

Here are a couple of threads that I consider whiny:
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?p=448148#post448148
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?p=448537#post448537
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?p=448415#post448415
http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?p=448296#post448296

There's just a lot of "my life sucks and I'm ugly and will never get a date and it always rains" and it annoys me... Ofcourse, those threads have as much right to be here as this reply has and I wouldn't want it any other way, but dayum my frustration had to go somewhere and it ended up going here. Sorry Arty

Well I agree with you, I noticed I was starting to on a little, which isn't really me as I don't do that in "real life" lol.

dating a disabled guy thread though is an important problem I keep going through at the moment.