06-26-2014, 07:16 AM
Hey, I'm 21 years old, I identify as straight and as you can tell from my title, I'm a little confused.
So I'm at college and I'm exposed to many different sexualities. I have many gay/bi friends that I didn't have in high school, and I think it's awesome. Being around them so much caused me to really reflect on my I own sexuality.
I'm a virgin, and never really advanced much with women, but I still feel attracted to them. But when I think about men, I also get a sexual attraction. But I've really had little experience with either so it's hard to figure it out. I feel I'm at least a bisexual.
Now comes my problem. I feel like I don't want to come out because I feel that if I try being bi and end up not liking it, I won't be able to go back and women won't look at me the same way.
My other issue of coming out is that I really want the life style of having the traditional life style with a wife and kids. I mean no offense to same sex marriages with children, I just can't see myself in that situation a few years down the line.
Thanks in advance for any and all feedback.
So I'm at college and I'm exposed to many different sexualities. I have many gay/bi friends that I didn't have in high school, and I think it's awesome. Being around them so much caused me to really reflect on my I own sexuality.
I'm a virgin, and never really advanced much with women, but I still feel attracted to them. But when I think about men, I also get a sexual attraction. But I've really had little experience with either so it's hard to figure it out. I feel I'm at least a bisexual.
Now comes my problem. I feel like I don't want to come out because I feel that if I try being bi and end up not liking it, I won't be able to go back and women won't look at me the same way.
My other issue of coming out is that I really want the life style of having the traditional life style with a wife and kids. I mean no offense to same sex marriages with children, I just can't see myself in that situation a few years down the line.
Thanks in advance for any and all feedback.