Bad treatment from people within the gay community

[dynamodean]

Wow i have not seen this in person but I didn't know youtube had so much bi phobic idiots , but I have seen some online by both bisexuals and gays I've heard some bisexuals saying that gays are in denial about being bi and no one is 100 % anything , I have also heard some gay people saying this too and i have heard some lesbians and gay men say they wouldn't date bisexuals . I saw a lesbian call a bunch of bisexual women sluts online .and said she was warning lesbian against bisexuals , I've recently seen a bisexual being bi-phobic and getting a pass to be so because they were bi themselves .

Idiots will be idiots and hypocrites will be hypocrites...doesn't matter if they're into vag, peen, or cabbages. Some are neither gay, straight, or bi...they're just slutty.

[Wardo94]

Lol someone's in denial and literally eating her words
It's surprising to me how people can be so honest when their a hypocrite talk about the pot calling the kettle black




Not everyone is sexually fluid just saying .
I see saying this as monophobic , yes sexuality is fluid but not for everyone .

And that's the thing. If you feel confident on what you think you are, then go by whatever label fits you best. But if you're kinda' wandering and still exploring those areas to see what you feel most comfortable with, then you shouldn't let labels mold you to who you are.

[princealbertofb]

To the original poster, Excalibur.
Note that even gays' existence has sometimes been questioned by straight people and some religions. They are / were / have been so afraid of the difference that they would say there is abnormal and deviant behaviour but no such thing as 'gays'. It seems to me, however, that the variations in human sexuality have been averred by many studies, some not even very recent. Since then it has been accepted that:
1) being gay is just a variant, not a deviance from straight reproductive sexuality;
2) the spectrum is pretty wide and most people would fall somewhere in it from 100% straight, to 100% gay, but because we are intrinsically curious, we humans have the potential and capacity for both change and experimentation in that respect.

So, basically anyone who contests the existence of gays, or bisexuals, as such, is just being ignorant of the whole frame and uses this argument as a tool for their own satisfaction.

Second point. We spend our time being judged by others, in all sorts of capacities, so it is normal that gays should be able to judge too. We're good learners. If we can pretend to be straight, we can pretend to know better than the rest as well. Gays just imitate what others do. The thing is, gays probably have the same sort of language skills that a lot of females do (ie, they know the power of words) and therefore can be more apt to choose the right word to either heal or maim.

Having had the aim of words so often targeted against them as they grow up, they have found it a useful tool for at least being able to give scathing repartee. If you can't fight (or won't fight) with your fists, then harsh words will do the trick just the same. Otherwise, how could we explain the power of bullying?

Mostly, I'd say that anyone using words against another is, in some way or other, probably bullying, showing lethal force in the shape of sentences, words, insults, 'readings'... etc.

Are gays more judgmental than straights? Probably not, but they seem to be good at handling those words as a shield to other people's insults, and as a weapon against stupidity, or the fear of being caught with their guard down.

Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose.

[Melody]

And that's the thing. If you feel confident on what you think you are, then go by whatever label fits you best. But if you're kinda' wandering and still exploring those areas to see what you feel most comfortable with, then you shouldn't let labels mold you to who you are.

that's fine but don't go around speaking for others saying everyone is fluid when some of us aren't , just to prove your point and erasing gays and lesbians .