I am a virgin

[axejet]

I would say im an okay looking guy, okay body, been hit on by guys and girls and had all the chances i could get but i just didnt do it because i might do things wrong "real life is not a porn movie"... Is it bad that i wanna do it with someone special? But im already 27... Should i just give up my virginity to a random hook up?

[Borg69]

You could randomly hookup with someone special.

It doesn't necessarily have to be your Disney Prince Mr. Right Happily Ever After... but let it be someone you think is very special. You can have a "moment" with someone, even knowing that it could only be that fleeting instance... and who knows... maybe he could/would work into something more long term?

Life, sex and relationships are baby steps... you're trying to bite off too much at once.

I'm NOT saying to just do any guy willing in some public restroom... Let it be a romantic date that ends up intimate. Wine. Dine. Laugh. Cry. Be intimate... cherish the moment, and move forward and see what the rest of life has to offer.

You don't have to win the race, but you do need to get out of the starting gate.

[Bluelight]

Just be thankful you're not living in some ancient civilization, they might have sacrificed you to the gods by now lol jk well, it's your virginity, do what you want with it. I lost mine on a whim, didn't expect it to happen, never hooked up with that guy again. Do I regret it? Not really, it was a pretty great experience, even though it was with someone who didn't have any emotional value.

[LJay]

I am a musician. One of the things that you learn when you get into music seriously is that there is absolutely no permanence to it. It is a medium that exists only in fleeting time. You can write down the notes for a BAch fugue and you can even record a performance, but the music only happens as you hear it.

Sex can be a lot like music. You can recall it in memory, but you can only experience it in the moment. when you look at it this way , virginity becomes an opportunity to create a moment. You will never hear the 'song" until you open your mouth and sing.

[axejet]

Thanks guys!

[Virge]

Finding out you're a virgin helps explain your problem with a straight roommate. Obviously you don't have enough experience to have a clue about some things.

I'm not going to give advice on keeping or losing virginity.

[axejet]

Its okay i understand but thanks anyways...

[Anocxu]

I am a musician. One of the things that you learn when you get into music seriously is that there is absolutely no permanence to it. It is a medium that exists only in fleeting time. You can write down the notes for a BAch fugue and you can even record a performance, but the music only happens as you hear it.

Sex can be a lot like music. You can recall it in memory, but you can only experience it in the moment. when you look at it this way , virginity becomes an opportunity to create a moment. You will never hear the 'song" until you open your mouth and sing.

Omg.. that was beautiful !

[Mraaronlb]

I think waiting to do it with someone special is great! Don't let anyone tell you it's crazy, stupid, "cute" (in a condescending way).. etc. As long as you believe it's what is best for you that is all that matters.

[CuriousPhoenix]

I am 26 and still a virgin. I had a guy throw himself at me when I was like 15 but I never pursued him further. I recently decided I didn't want to be a virgin anymore either. I got tired of waiting for that special someone, I'm also tired of being the only virgin I know of in my friends. One of my friends moved to Dallas within the past year and he constantly sends Grindr conversations between him and his fling and telling us he hooked up with someone last night. So I am trying to get a random hookup and its not really working that well.