Am I still a virgin?

[verysimple]

The other night this week, I did it with a muscle bear. lol
we practically did everything except for actual penetration...
what does that make me ? Is he my first, idk if i lost my virginity really

[Edward]

I would say you've lost some of your virginities with one still left

[verysimple]

I would say you've lost some of your virginities with one still left

I'd say I am a half virgin!! Hahaha

[CellarDweller]

Hiya VS.....

I guess it depends on how you view 'virginity'. For some, it happens when you have anal, for others, when you have oral, for others, if you are masturbated by someone else.

Any one of those answers could be right. For me, it was when my first boyfriend gave me oral sex, after all, it's called 'oral sex'.

either way, congratuations.

[shirogane]

Just one word " WOW". I don't know that you could make it so fast.

[verysimple]

Hiya VS.....

I guess it depends on how you view 'virginity'. For some, it happens when you have anal, for others, when you have oral, for others, if you are masturbated by someone else.

Any one of those answers could be right. For me, it was when my first boyfriend gave me oral sex, after all, it's called 'oral sex'.

either way, congratuations.

lol, i did have oral sex... but i still retain my right to state my opinion that i am a half virgin hahaha

[verysimple]

Just one word " WOW". I don't know that you could make it so fast.

umm, your point?
R U saying I am a slut?

[shirogane]

no, please don't get the wrong idea. I just try to say that i'm surprise that you could...well....( damn, my English so bad, i can't describe for you what i think right now). Please forgive me if i say anything hurt you.

[Beaux]

Did he make you cum? If yes, then you lost your v-card. Jmo

[Bluelight]

Oh the virginity thing... do I have a few words to say about this one. I think that some gay guys have this annoying tendency to de-value anything that's not penetration, mostly because they're so proud of how good they've become at anal sex that they feel the need to be placed higher than other gay guys who don't practice penetration. Same thing straight guys do, they value themselves through sex, except in the gay world there's a whole new level added to it, just to create a few more ranks. It's a ridiculous, catty hierarchy of sex. And take it from me, I've done oral and anal, both are great, but don't listen to anyone who says that oral isn't sex, it's still sex.