height difference in relationships

[Virge]

I'm not put off by taller guys but as somebody who prefers to be the big spoon I do find it difficult to wrap myself around somebody taller than me. I've never found any other issues with height difference though. ...................... if I bought food I knew my ex wouldn't approve of me having I would put the item at the back of the top shelf of the kitchen cupboard because he was too short to be able to see it, haha!
Oh yes!!!! I love being the King Spoon when it's bedtime! My guy doesn't even sleep with his head on a pillow most the time and gets pissed if I change positions.

Hahahahaha! You're not supposed to go around telling everyone where our hiding places are!!!!! I do the same thign about stashing things up high where normal people can't get to them!!!!

The problem I personally have is that a lot of shorter men, in my experience, seem to be looking for very masculine, muscular, rugged types of men. I'm not that. Whilst i'm a top and prefer to be the more dominant one in a sexual relationship, my personality is quite shy and introverted and I look quite young, slim and passive so I usually attract tall, dominant men.

I'm stuck in South Dakota where there are gays in either one of the "semi big cities" in the state Rapid City = 70,000 Sioux Falls = 160,000 and they're 5 hours apart on the east and west sides of the state. All in the rest of the state is small towns, farms, ranches and a whole bunch of hard core masculine gay men who run tractors, herd cattle and all that. I went to the bar in Sioux Falls 2 years ago and ran into some of them. They said I was too tall to be a real twink so they started calling me a "stwink-ilt" Stilt + twink.

At 6'6", I think it would be interesting to be with a guy taller than me but the odds of that happening aren't too good.

Welcome to my boat. I'm 6'6" too. I'm not boney but I'm an ectomorph with wide shoulders 32 or 33 waist X 36 or 37 legs in pants. 195 lbs. I have a thing for guys who are well proportioned mesomorphs with some muscle and meat on them -- but still lean. Most guys "our height" look like they'd blow away in a strong wind.

[LEANDRONJ]

With the scarcity of sane, level headed, matured minded, responsible, honest, loyal, affectionate, caring, and I could go on and on available men to choose from these days, height is the least on my mind! I love short guys because they feel cozy and huggable against my 6 ft body height! I love taller guys because it gives me a sense of being protected and a feeling of safety! so either one suits me just fine!

[DonJon]

Gee, I'm really short like 5'5 only. haha. mile: Most Asians - especially South or South East Asians are actually. I like guys taller than me but not necessary when looking for a partner. I focus much on the connection between the both of us.

[dynamodean]

I'm on the shorter side at 5'8-5'9. If some guy or girl will turn me down because of my height, well I'm just fine with that.

People will have their preferences. I've been with those taller and shorter than me and haven't found any correlation between height and partner-material.

[lonelylad]

thank you for your replies friends

[GuyOverThere]

I'm 5'4" as well, and haven't ever had any problem dating anyone. I really don't think most guys care tbh.

Pocket gays rule <3

[JerseyBoy]

Height doesn't matter at all to me. Most of the guys I've been with have been significantly shorter than I am.

[lonelylad]

thank you for your replies guyoverthere and jerseyboy.

[EvenOlderButWiser]

The only time height matters is when your lying down. And only to the size queens

[araya]

I always date taller guys, they all at least have 5" height difference than me (I'm 5'6"), my prev bf is like 6'3"
as for girls, I dated girls w/ the same height/a little height diff (been a while since I date girls, this last 3 years I was into guys)