Alright let's be frank here, and I'm not talking about my buddy Frank who lives in Johannesburg, SA lol. It seems to me that it doesn't matter much what we're telling you here, because we're dealing with a dude that just finally accepted (not discovered) its sexuality. Now that same dude wants to experiment. So whatever we'll say here won't change the fact that you're pretty excited at the idea of a gangbang or orgy.
You have got some pretty good advises from everyone here and yet what I read is that you're just very excited and curious, your initial post doesn't actually make sense now when you claim the following:
Quote:I'm scared if I say no to his idea I'll be all alone in a new world
And later on in another post you say this:
Quote:The "partner" I'm attending with is just a friend. Nothing emotional so no hang ups there.
Therefore the latter statement kind of make the previous statement obsolete, because what do you care about being alone in this new world if you say no to a gangbang/orgy, you confirmed that he's not your boyfriend nor a lover, he's just someone like you who may or may not have had the experience of orgy and gangbang and knowing that you're in your debut he found it to be a very good opportunity to experiment with you since you both are having sex together with no string attached. And at 23 years old, you truly believe you'll be alone? Dude, you have the age that so many are looking for, and if you're one of those Aussie bum similar to my husband, I'd say you are one heck of an attractive guy. I wouldn't worry so much of being all alone.
You are in the age group where people doesn't give a flying fuck of your appearance, at least not at first. Best example... I'm 38 but I don't look my age, Alex is 28 but he doesn't look his age either... in a dating website age is all it seems to be important, my profile and Alex's will be skipped if we set a profile without picture because of our age while your profile even though you have no picture will still be the most popular one because you're 23 years old. Do you undertand now that you're not going to be alone, at least not for the upcoming two years to go. At 20 - 25 I dumped someone, go to a bar or club and get someone else the very same day.
Quote:Well, Unsure, to be honest, nobody's said it would be a gang bang, so in an orgy you might just be having sex with your partner along with a whole lot of other people having sex with their partners or random partners
Princealbertofb is pretty right here. You need to make the difference of what is a gangbang and an orgy. I have done both, several time since I used to be a sex worker. A gangbang is often concentrated on one person being the cum dumpster of many others, some may take turns, in my experience, I was the receptive end and also the giving end at another time. And orgy is a bit different, since I participated in an orgy with my husband and well an orgy is more like a bunch of guy having sex with their partner in a same open place.
Quote:The way it has been put too me is that they will be running a train on me, but everyone will be taking a turn at receiving
That is not an orgy it's a gangbang
Now that you're educated on difference of an orgy versus a gangbang don't you believe it a little early to go in such extent to find your level of excitation. By experience I can tell you straight away that gang bang are pretty dangerous, for STDs and also for your body, more people involve means more danger. You said to have been concerned about the size of some guys, well if there's 5 of you I don't believe your partner will go around asking everyone what's their size, when you sign up for a gangbang you go with what's being offered and you do not question size.
For someone as inexperienced as you are I'd go with baby steps first, start with three-ways, swinging partners in an orgy but immediately jump to the hard stuff of being gang-banged it's a little stupid and unconscious if you ask me.
What if you say no? What if you decide that you prefer to gain more experience before jumping into the hard stuff, you're fuckbuddy can still go ahead and have his gang-bang without you and keep on having sex with you. A gang bang isn't something that happens every week or everyday.
What advice are you expecting from us here? You're talking to many people with many different take on sex and relationship. Really the decision is yours to take and from what you wrote back, it seems to me that you've taken your decision already and that you're too much excited to see the clear picture.
So go ahead dude have your gang bang, try it and you'll make a decision for yourself. Stop asking around how it was for us, because you'll never get a clear answer from anyone. I did it, Alex, my husband did it, East did it and many others might have done it. East said he liked it, I didn't and I might have done it more than 20 times both gang bang and orgy and to me nothing compared to the intimacy of one on one sex with someone I love. Alex my husband didn't like it either. In porn movies you often see gang bang where the boy end up sucking and taking cums from everyone in their mouth or on body, but Alex went for the tasting and he realized that day that sperms from one individual to another is not the same taste at all and you know what happened. He ends up throwing up - and that wasn't pretty.
The decision is yours, experiment at will, don't be stupid though, same rules apply, if you're going to be gang-banged, request that each member wear a condom. I seriously doubt that your fuckbuddy will run an STD/HIV test on all the participants including himself.
Enjoy!