11-10-2014, 12:00 PM
LEANDRONJ Wrote:And suppose he finally split up? anyone who splits up usually takes a long long time to finally part from a break up, and that is a fact, not something I made up! so consider yourself as a rebound, and we all know the consequences of that kind of relationship!
Sorry to sound so negative, it is not my intention! I do hope things can work out for both of you! but if you still want to proceed with this "temporary high" love affair, do it with caution, because if you ignore the possible consequences, that temporary high is going to take you down fast!
Let's be honest though - it sounds like he just went back to his partner (n.ow ex) for stability, but it sounds like they were never truly back together - just offering an amount of support for each other while they had nothing else (although we are only seeing this from the OP's PoV).
To the OP - don't get too caught up by this till you know where you stand. Personally, I think you have taken the right steps (hand job aside) to get close to someone you like, while not breaking the boundaries of his relationship once you knew about it. A lot of people are being super negative here for whatever reason, but I personally don't think you have done much wrong. The main thing to do now is to be honest with him about what you want - you don't want to continue in this weird state of unknowing at the moment forever.
Also screw the age gap worry - sounds like you get on just fine.