Gay people also want to be parents

[Adam]

Much more than children.

And this is individual for each person

[Ekwarph]

In case you don't understand, I am a bit ironic from the beginning, huh?

[Adam]

In case you don't understand, I am a bit ironic from the beginning, huh?

I understand, don't worry!))))))

[bluerealm]

be careful when adopting.

I know i have bad grammar and my spelling is atrocious but i do read allot.

people are having problems when they adopt. these kids have been through traumatic situations. when you bring the kid home you think, I'm helping this kid out and you feel all good inside. then the kid starts screaming and breaking things.
the kid starts saying i hate you. why would my mom leave me!!!!

the good feeling starts to go away real fast.

I would think about interviews with the child to make sure your compatible.

otherwise your looking at a lifetime of therapy.
I hate to say this but it might be better to get a baby.

also be careful of going outside the united states. these babys have big time heath problems.

its not that people want to talk you out of having a child but f*** man look at whats involved.

a child does show you a different side of life. After having a child you become a different person.

[Ekwarph]

I understand, don't worry!))))))

Great!

I know it's bad to explicit irony, but it's difficult to make some when it's not in mother tongue.

[Adam]

Great!

I know it's bad to explicit irony, but it's difficult to make some when it's not in mother tongue.

I know lots of people who try to be ironic but cannot do it even using a mother tongue. Everything depends on sense of humor

[Darius]

Children should be wanted and planned, not some accident of intercourse. Adam, it sounds like you know what you want and have begun plans to make it happen. Go for it no matter what anyone else thinks or says.

[matty7]

im just going to reply to the original post and not dissect it for hidden meaning

Your wish for children to complete your family has been played out in Modern Family tv show and as you can see from Mitchel and Cams adoption that its very acceptable now for gay couples to adopt a child and create a happy family unit

[Adam]

be careful when adopting.

I know i have bad grammar and my spelling is atrocious but i do read allot.

people are having problems when they adopt. these kids have been through traumatic situations. when you bring the kid home you think, I'm helping this kid out and you feel all good inside. then the kid starts screaming and breaking things.
the kid starts saying i hate you. why would my mom leave me!!!!

the good feeling starts to go away real fast.

I would think about interviews with the child to make sure your compatible.

otherwise your looking at a lifetime of therapy.
I hate to say this but it might be better to get a baby.

also be careful of going outside the united states. these babys have big time heath problems.

its not that people want to talk you out of having a child but f*** man look at whats involved.

a child does show you a different side of life. After having a child you become a different person.

I understand, that after becoming a parent I'll never live as before. I understand, that it may be very hard. I understand, that if I adopt, the adopted child is a personality with his\her own character, formed a long time before we met. I know that I'll have to deal with lots of problems. I will use all your advices and I thank you for them. But I'm not afraid of adoption and of responsibility

[Adam]

Children should be wanted and planned, not some accident of intercourse. Adam, it sounds like you know what you want and have begun plans to make it happen. Go for it no matter what anyone else thinks or says.

Agree with you, that children should be wanted and planned. Children should be born an brought up in love. Thank you for support))