If you plan a secret dinner I think you should play game with him and act like normal, and after that all plan should work perfectly
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Haha ok this should be funny! Im going to do it! He is going to get his dessert and be like "wtf!?" Or he is going to start eating without looking and smear it before he can read it!
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In case he swallow it before read it. A firework is plan B
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18 and 23 were the ages my guy and i were when we met. I was the 18 year old. I'm soon to be 27, so that was almost 9 years ago. I can tell you from my experience it's best not to be pushy and not to expect things to go the way you want them to be.
You said this and it worried me,
"....and then asking him to be my boyfriend (he also wont expect that since last night I gave him this long spiel about how I would never ask someone to be my boyfriend around all these holidays, he disappointingly believed it... "
It might be best to let that go awhile. Just date and see how things develop before trying to put labels on the relationship. Try not to impose your expectations on him. That way you'll be surprised most the time by what he does and disappointed less often by what he doesn't do.
As far as "plans" for dates to make them perfect.... The best times and the most romantic times my guy and I have ever had were totally unplanned spontaneous and "just happened".............
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We've been talking for a LONG time, we definitely aren't rushing anything. I have been purposely taking it slow with this guy, we are at the point where people assume we are dating. I was just curious if my date idea sounded cool.
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so tell us if your plan works, OK ?
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