Is auto-cum a must?

[Wade]

By the way, the prefix "auto" means "self." So I really don't think you can call it "auto-cumming" when you're being fucked in the ass by another man's pee pee.

[Iceblink]

Really? My voice just sounds all garbled.

I imagine I sound like Ethel Merman.

[meridannight]

By the way, the prefix "auto" means "self." So I really don't think you can call it "auto-cumming" when you're being fucked in the ass by another man's pee pee.

never heard of such usage before this thread. nobody's ever gone, 'oh by the way i'm able to auto-cum'. nerd. (and no, you can't call it that technically anyway).

[Darius]

never heard of such usage before this thread. nobody's ever gone, 'oh by the way i'm able to auto-cum'. nerd. (and no, you can't call it that technically anyway).

Why are you getting so hung up on the word? Everyones knows what he meant.
He is talking about a hands free orgasm.

[meridannight]

Why are you getting so hung up on the word? Everyones knows what he meant.
He is talking about a hands free orgasm.

why are you imagining i'm getting hung up on anything?

i was effing joking man. and i use the word 'nerd' in the affectionate.

[Wade]

never heard of such usage before this thread. nobody's ever gone, 'oh by the way i'm able to auto-cum'. nerd. (and no, you can't call it that technically anyway).

I've never heard it used before either.

If we are indeed going to get all technical, (and as I am, apparently, as you put it... a nerd) then I think it should be called "Penile Insertion Stimulation Succumbing to Orgasm, Not Manually Exclusive."

Or P.I.S.S.O.N.M.E. for short.

[princealbertofb]

So completely with Mike, on this one. Well, for starters, it is really rare that you see guys ejaculate automatically from being fucked, in porn at least. So I daresay that it's more difficult than you'd expect. It's going to depend on so many factors that I don't think you can call it a 'must' at all. And anyone who thinks it's going to happen is probably deluding themselves.

From all the porn I've watched, I've noticed that this hardly ever happens, but that could be for any number of reasons, one of them being that they don't generally go at it for any lengthy periods of times without stopping in between shots. The body must get used to all the thrusting and the level needed to reach ejaculation point is always thwarted by having to stop.

I read somewhere (and have kind of checked out for myself) that you are about to ejaculate when your heart starts pumping at a certain rate, below that rate, nothing gooey's going to happen. So it also stands to reason that if you're stopping to change a camera angle, you're going to have to start anew in reaching that level of heartbeats.
Mike says that it's so much an emotional experience, that again, I'd be quite prepared to understand that porn actors aren't going to ejaculate without a bit of hand stimulation and fluffing, because it's a job, and they may not be so totally into it, emotionally and physically (think of all the guys that do gay for pay ; they're not going to be emotionally fulfilled, are they?)

The second thing is probably something to do with how your body is angled and how much pressure the gliding parts apply upon the other parts. So it could be partly due to the size of the inserting partner's penis, and whether he reaches that spot or beyond it, and it could also be something to do with mental readiness, and other bodily factors such as having a bladder that is too full, or bowels that need some movement etc...

There are a few porn stars who seem to be more easily "edged" than others when bottoming and who can do it, but it's rather a rare instance. I don't know if it proves the scarcity of the happening, but it's probably all due to age, hormones, level of excitement, size of the partner, readiness of one's own body as a bottom, emotional letting-go, and being naturally geared towards such ejaculations, etc... So many factors to make an earthquake. ha.

[princealbertofb]

By the way, the prefix "auto" means "self." So I really don't think you can call it "auto-cumming" when you're being fucked in the ass by another man's pee pee.

You've got a point, Wadino. So auto-cum is just another way of saying "masturbation" ? Or do we mean a "wet dream" sort of ejaculation?
Don't bother to answer, I know full well what Anonymous was talking about. hehehe.

[princealbertofb]

I've had hands free ejaculations and honestly I prefer it when a hand is around my cock. It's more intense to me.

Actually, I think Darius may have a point there too. When you ejaculate, hands free, but while bottoming, the semen can tend to just dribble out and not spurt out in gushes (again, depends on how things are inserted and how gagging for it you are), so the sensation might be quite fulfilling from the inside point of view, but not so much of a rush as when the semen comes shooting out. Very different sensations. Keep a hand applied to the shaft and glans and then you're probably hitting some more nerve spots that were not being stimulated.

Still, as Anonymous asked, I think the idea of making a person come hands-free is very very sexy, whether the bottom enjoys it or not. That's where I would turn onto the emotional bit of being intimate with my partner....

[Virge]

So completely with Mike, on this one. Well, for starters, it is really rare that you see guys ejaculate automatically from being fucked, in porn at least. So I daresay that it's more difficult than you'd expect.

And anyone who thinks it's going to happen is probably deluding themselves.

I understand your point of view PA but I'm glad I have me a guy who's an exception to all that. When we finish in missionary position it's 100% sure he's going to spooge hands free... and I'm conditioned so that as soon as I feel it happening with him I can't hold mine back. He won't even let me jack him most the time.

There have been many times in other positions when he shoots off hands free during penetration and there's no warning...

The best position for me to get him into having non ejaculation MMOs is laying on top him doing it from behind. All I have to do to get him to cum in that position is slide my open palm under him and keep pressure on his penis against his abs.... and I don't ejaculate about 75% of the time in that position after a bunch of MMOs so he doesn't have to worry about getting up to go to the bathroom... and can lay there and enjoy his sex coma. I'll roll us in the spooning position still connected to snuggle up and snooze... and maybe wake up with him wanting to do it again. woooooo hooooooo!