Anal Masturbation burning pains

[lordjames]

So I realize this is sort of a common question, but as I grew up... probably from age 12-13 I used to experiment and I was curious about anal pleasure. I am a Virgo so we can be pretty sexual, even bi\gay guys. So I have always been straight until I started enjoying anal masturbation, and even though you can still be straight during anal masturbation. There is also kind of a point where while watching porn occasionally, I was more interested in how it felt for the female more than myself. Like being on the bottom, it was at first kind of just a thought sometimes and then it became an obsession and I was very aroused by that. So maybe like two years ago, I think I had accidentally used a bad type of lotion while masturbating anally and it burned the inner walls ( the area you first enter to ). And as disgusting as it all sounds, I remember having a burning sensation in that area for some time. And ever since then, like today it still seems mildly painful to insert or pull out even my finger. I have two dildos, and even though it hurts sometimes... I kind of suck it up and try to enjoy it. I was wondering if anyone here has trouble with sort of a burning pain after inserting and maybe if it is just a common characteristic of anal masturbation\sex. I sort of remember one I first started these practices as a young teenager, I think it felt better... I don't remember it hurting like this.

[Hardheaded1]

You describe a burn.

It's possible that you burned yourself and you have scar tissue.

I'd see a doctor, a gay friendly one (ask friends to refer one or search online) and be examined.

It may be that your rectum is only stretched that way during anal insertion, so it may not burn during normal defecation.

Have it checked out. No one here can get a web cam zoom in close enough to see in that lighting.

[Borg69]

What are you using for a lubricant?

[Semaj]

Ouch! Sounds like you used deep heat instead of lube
Go see a gp you could have scaring or damage.
Xx

[Cuddly]

I agree, awkward and embarrassing as this may be for you, you should get this checked. It might be nothing or it might be something that could cause serious problems later on, you'll never know if you don't get it checked.

And the whole sexuality thing is weird, but maybe that's just me. (I've never heard of straights turning gay by discovering anal pleasures)

[princealbertofb]

An anal fissure comes to mind, possibly?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_fissure

[princealbertofb]

It is also possible that you are allergic to latex, if you're using them to cover your dildos, or have been using them down there. I think you'd need to have a doctor's or a proctologist's advice.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Initially, like the first oh 7-10 times of having anal sex, there will be a range of 'discomfort' ranging from burning sensation (from having friction in a place not designed to accept friction) to soreness, to even bogginess and down right agony.

The asshole is not designed to accept things being shoved up in it. It is an exit door only, it is actually designed to keep things out, thus you can can go swimming without getting your arse full of water. So there are what is called 'sphincter muscles' at the openig which are designed to allow fecal matter to pass outward, while preventing other things from easily going in.

If the burning sensation is around the opening of the arse, then its the sphincter muscles complaining, possibly even bruised or torn.

If the burning sensation is deeper, you could have scratched the anus/rectum walls. The anus/rectum and colon are composed of very delicate tissues which do not take kindly to any sort of friction. Again, the whole passage is designed to pass things down the line, they are not designed to take an object being forced in and out of it - no matter how slow and gentle you go it is forcing, since fecal matter tends to be pushed out with little resistance.

Thus its possible you have scratches, most likely microscopic. Being a moist area, any tears, scratches or other such injuries are less likely to scab over effectively, thus any opening in the tissue will be an open wound for longer than your exterior skin. Thus like a paper cut you feel a burning pain.

Lastly is the product(s) you use for lube and or the toys you use.

Dildoes are typically made from latex now days. If you are sensitive to latex or down right allergic, then a burning sensation will persist as you will have an inner ass rash. A good way to test an allergy to latex is to get latex glove, cut off the bottom one inch or so wrist part of the glove and wear it for a couple hours around your wrist.

If at any time during that period you start to see redness or feel itching take it off and you can pretty much say you are allergic to latex. If after two hours nothing happens, take it off and wait 24 hours. If redness or slight itching starts during that period and you haven't been exposed to anything like poison oak/ivy chances are high that you are latex sensitive.

If you are latex sensitive there are vinyl and sheepskin condoms you can use. https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=vinyl+condoms has other types of plastics (non natural latex) condoms. Mind Sheepskin is literally sheep, and is not effective for stopping STDS, but is effective in protecting you from your Latex Dildo of Doom.

The other aspect here is your lube. Some people are sensitive to down right allergic to the lube. The best way to check that is to take a dime sized dot and put it on the inside (bottom side) of your forarm, about hand width up the arm from the wrist. Leave the dime size dot there for ten minutes, then use a dry cloth to wipe off the excess, wait about two hours to see what happens.

Again, redness/rash/burning sensation means your allergic. After two hours wash off with soap and water and monitor the spot for the day and see what happens. If you react later than that you have a sensitivity.

Yes I'm saying wait a day with these tests. The tissues of the inner anus/rectum are far more sensitive and react more violently and rapidly to exposure to allergens/sensitivity products than the skin of your arm. The skin is designed to keep stuff out of the body, the rectum/anus and colon are all pretty much designed to absorb stuff like nutrients, thus you can take a suppository (pills you shove up your butt) and absorb the active ingredients.

Also, since you are using a dildo you can be pretty certain you are doing damage to the lining of your anus/rectum area. Micro scratches due to friction and unavoidable. Unlike your outer skin there is no outer layer of dead cells to protect the more sensitive tissue. So minor friction, no matter how much lube you use, will ultimately lead to minor, microscopic scratches which allow such things like latex and lube to get into your sensitive tissues.

[Borg69]

I think I had accidentally used a bad type of lotion while masturbating anally and it burned the inner walls

I think this is your problem. Do not (!!!!) Use hand lotions, soaps, butter, vegetable oil, Vaseline, ... ANYTHING internally that isn't water based or specifically designed to be used anally. Also, make sure your hands and toys are clean before you insert them.

I'm going to go out on a limb and assume you used some type of hand lotion that happened to be in the house and seemed like a good idea at the time when you were horny. They often have chemicals not meant to be taken internally.

[lordjames]

Thanks for all of your help guys, I'll have to see if I am allergic to latex. I think when I got my dildos I made sure they were latex free. But the rash feeling is right inside past the actual sphincter muscle, but further past that point I am fine. Sorry if that is gross to you guys lolll

It could be fissures, but I gave it like almost a year of recovery if there was a fissure. Could it actually be that when I use a larger object like a dildo (there is some girth on it), it tares the muscle fibers some and they are sore? I'll let you guys know if I am okay