02-27-2015, 03:32 PM
Virge Wrote:Okay... you mentioned this guy's S.O. / Significant Other. That sat off alarm bells since we don't use that term much in a gay forum. We use terms like partner, boyfriend, husband.
"S.O." / Significant other is a completely vague term and I suspect your use of it was to be as intentionally vague as you could in order to cover up the fact the S.O. is a female, a girl friend. It couldn't be a wife because there's no such thing as a wife who allows her husband to spend the night off regularly with anyone.
So if you're really 24 this guy you're hot for must be younger, possibly even in high school which makes the spending the night scenarios more believable. Also he must be "straight." If he was gay he wouldn't be playing that "I'm asleep with my dick out" game that straight guys play trying to get blowjobs from gays.
I'm going to pass by on giving advice on this until there's more info.
Sorry. I didn't try to be vague, I just wasn't entirely sure what term I could use, and that was the first one I came up with (as I had just finished reading a comic that used the same term for a gay couple). As for it being female, no it is a guy. I have talked to him a couple times, and he agrees that they are in an open thing for playing around since he had to move to a different country and my friend couldn't (quoting him) "spread [his] asscheeks far enough for him". And while he is younger, its two years difference, not no High School thing. And I just wasn't sure as I know once or twice he has been actually asleep and did stuff with him, though he didn't mind when he woke up. I was just surprised, and after that time I did stuff with him while he was asleep, I didn't want to offhand as it felt a little odd in the back of my mind.