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I am straight married men. Few years back (4 years) i got a nice blow job from a AdultStore. I was happy and really like it. from the day on wards. I started like to get blowjobs. I am trying to avoid those feelings. Craigslist was helping me to find some connections. currently i am always thinking for gay porn and gay things. I am thinking , i am addicted to gay during the day time. because of this i am not able success in work. I am deviate from work. I am more sex appetite for sex nowadays.
I am in 40's. I want to come out of these things.
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I'm a : Gay Man in a Monogamous Gay Relationship
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Most guys do in fact like blow jobs, doesn't make it a gay issue. Perhaps more context is needed. Are you saying you're addicted to gay porn and that it has prevented you from being successful at work? Well, that may be true but I say the root problem might be self-control and discipline. A lot of people waste time at work on social media, texting their friends, playing games....looking at porn. You see where I'm going with that? Does any of that make you a bad person? No... Doesn't necessarily make you a bad worker, but I think simply focusing on time management will make a big difference.
First off, the labels. Straight...Bi-sexual, gay... they're all labels. Accept the fact that you, to some degree or another are sexually attracted to men. Does it make you gay? Maybe...maybe not. Does it mean you're no longer straight? Maybe...maybe not. Think of sexuality or sexual orientation like a spectrum. If you think giving or receiving a blog job from a guy sounds like a good time then either embrace it, or not. Now, I'm not familiar with the culture of Ukraine or know how the general public or your peers would react to someone being gay without some research. Generally speaking my advice normally would be to explore your sexuality, if you're curious that is. However, my guess is that where you're located might be an issue. Nevertheless, I would suggest making gay friends (as in to talk to and seek advice) who might be able to help you navigate this sort of stuff.
Finally, men by nature are more promiscuous than women, for the most part. Therefore, it is not surprising that you find yourself with an appetite for sex.
That all being said, what do you want to do about your feelings and your behavior?
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I'm a : Single Bi Man
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Love this thread, it has so much truth to it. Once a man has experienced oral sex from another man it can become addicting, giving, receiving, or both. Especially if he has a nice firm hard on.
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I have sucked quite a few straight guys who at first struggle with getting a blowjob from a gay guy. Once they realize they can enjoy it and not make them gay then it can be relaxing.
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I'm a : Bi Man in an Open Straight Relationship
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After some encouragement from my gf i decide to explore gay oral sex. I had never considered it until that conversation but wow I pleased I took the plunge.
First blow job I received and gave was at a beach and it blew ( pin intended) me away.
First time a guy came in my mouth was in a hotel room on a vacation… now I understand why gf enjoys them so much.
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I'm a : Gay Friendly Straight Man in an Open Straight Relationship
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whether your "straight" or "gay" or whatever... enjoy the sex. It's healthy and OK.