03-05-2015, 07:38 PM
I need your opinion guys. Please bear with my English. haha!
mile:
I met this guy from Grindr for a hookup. I know that meeting guys from apps or sites like I mentioned are mostly up for a NSA engagement. I have been meeting a couple of guys ever since and Iâm pretty sure I know where I stand. However, this guy just hit me differently. I canât get over him ever since I hooked up with him. Heâs been appearing in my freaking dreams for two days now. He was actually polite and caring when we had our moment and Iâm pretty sure I felt it from him, although he was obviously masking something personal which I truly understand and respect because ours was plainly a hookup.
And to describe his personality, heâs a really straight-acting gay or bi guy, he acts like a man. I can say that there was a slight arrogance with the way he carry himself like most really straight-acting gay or bi guys. Well me, Iâm just a geeky, semi-flamboyant gay guy.
mile:
Anyway, I also tried to kiss him which he favorably returned. But he told me politely that he donât usually kiss on sex dates because heâs lips are sensitive and gets allergic which I certainly understood. For the sex part, I can feel that he was caring and forthcoming. He even came twice. After which, we had a little bit of a personal talk about our personal lives. Just the gist I believe so not the whole cake which again I perfectly understood. He even pulled me closer on his right shoulder while we were lying when we did that little talk. And after that small talk we just closed our eyes for a couple of minutes and just hugged and felt each other while in silence. When it was time to go, we finished cleaning up. He asked me who will check out first whether me or him. A protocol perhaps. I told him he may go first and I thanked him for the night. He then, moved and hugged me tightly from my back. I was startled when he did that so I returned the hug, I gave him an awkward guy or pound hug, in front of our bodies, which he politely accepted. Then we said our goodbyes. I did not text him the day after âcause Iâm afraid that heâll sense that I tend to be clingy. Neither had he given me call or a text.
I am just curious what does that hug from the back means for a hookup like that? Was he just being polite? Should I expect something from good here? I am getting to like him more day by day. Usually Iâm not like this. What can you say guys?
Thanks in advance!
mile:
![Confused Confused](https://gayspeak.com/images/smilies/confused.png)
I met this guy from Grindr for a hookup. I know that meeting guys from apps or sites like I mentioned are mostly up for a NSA engagement. I have been meeting a couple of guys ever since and Iâm pretty sure I know where I stand. However, this guy just hit me differently. I canât get over him ever since I hooked up with him. Heâs been appearing in my freaking dreams for two days now. He was actually polite and caring when we had our moment and Iâm pretty sure I felt it from him, although he was obviously masking something personal which I truly understand and respect because ours was plainly a hookup.
And to describe his personality, heâs a really straight-acting gay or bi guy, he acts like a man. I can say that there was a slight arrogance with the way he carry himself like most really straight-acting gay or bi guys. Well me, Iâm just a geeky, semi-flamboyant gay guy.
![Confused Confused](https://gayspeak.com/images/smilies/confused.png)
Anyway, I also tried to kiss him which he favorably returned. But he told me politely that he donât usually kiss on sex dates because heâs lips are sensitive and gets allergic which I certainly understood. For the sex part, I can feel that he was caring and forthcoming. He even came twice. After which, we had a little bit of a personal talk about our personal lives. Just the gist I believe so not the whole cake which again I perfectly understood. He even pulled me closer on his right shoulder while we were lying when we did that little talk. And after that small talk we just closed our eyes for a couple of minutes and just hugged and felt each other while in silence. When it was time to go, we finished cleaning up. He asked me who will check out first whether me or him. A protocol perhaps. I told him he may go first and I thanked him for the night. He then, moved and hugged me tightly from my back. I was startled when he did that so I returned the hug, I gave him an awkward guy or pound hug, in front of our bodies, which he politely accepted. Then we said our goodbyes. I did not text him the day after âcause Iâm afraid that heâll sense that I tend to be clingy. Neither had he given me call or a text.
I am just curious what does that hug from the back means for a hookup like that? Was he just being polite? Should I expect something from good here? I am getting to like him more day by day. Usually Iâm not like this. What can you say guys?
Thanks in advance!
![Confused Confused](https://gayspeak.com/images/smilies/confused.png)