My boyfriend annoys me

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. He annoys me almost every time we see each other, though. I don't know what I should do to feel less annoyed when he says certain things. He doesn't think he should have to change what he says around me at all or he'd be compromising who he is. Is changing what annoys me compromising who I am? I have tried really hard but certain things still anoy me.
For example:
Me: "I will try harder not to get annoyed."
Him: "WILL you? Or are you just saying that?"
^ that annoys me

Me: "Turn right up here."
Him: "Okay. is it the first or second right?"
Me: "The first one is West and the second right is east. We want to take West."
Him: "I know we want to take West."
^that annoys me

Me: "Goodnight! I love you!!!"
Him: "Goodnight"
^that annoys me

Me: "I didn't think about him being gay when I added him o nFacebook. I just went to school with him."
Him: "Is he attractive to you?"
Me: "No!"
Him: "So why did you add him on facebook?!"
Me: "Because I went to high school with him and he is nice."
Him: "You told me you didn't have any gay people of Facebook!"
Me: "I meant I didn't have any gay people i banged or talked to before."
Him; "So you lied to me?"
^that annoys me


IDK what to do. He just annoys me all the time.

[meridannight]

you get annoyed way too easily (and that is putting it mildly). i'm surprised he isn't annoyed with you yet.

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Ok, so what do I do?

[Borg69]

How's the sex?

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It is good.

[LJay]

My roomie does stuff like this to me all the time. I put it down as a symptom of Asperger's. In the case of your East/West left/right example, he would say that I was giving him too much information and confusing things instead of just giving him the answer. In his mind, "the answer" is the answer he wants or imagines and very specifically so.

I just try to slough it off when I can.

In the example of "You lied to me" I would say, "Sorry, I wasn't thinking of it that way. I wasn't trying to give you the wrong impression on purpose."

You just have to get used to this stuff when dealing with some people. I think the big thing I would be concerned about is whether he stores it all up. Chances are he does not.

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That is interesting because I actually have Asperger's. I wonder if that has something to do with it.

[Beaux]

I really really want to comment on this thread...but it has to wait till I get back from camping.
~Beaux

[East]

I really really want to comment on this thread...but it has to wait till I get back from camping.
~Beaux

Ditto...I am incapacitated right now...my cell phone and I am in Monterey for the weekend...will comment on Monday....

[MikeW]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. He annoys me almost every time we see each other, though. I don't know what I should do to feel less annoyed when he says certain things. He doesn't think he should have to change what he says around me at all or he'd be compromising who he is. Is changing what annoys me compromising who I am? I have tried really hard but certain things still anoy me.
For example:
Me: "I will try harder not to get annoyed."
Him: "WILL you? Or are you just saying that?"
^ that annoys me

Me: "Turn right up here."
Him: "Okay. is it the first or second right?"
Me: "The first one is West and the second right is east. We want to take West."
Him: "I know we want to take West."
^that annoys me

Me: "Goodnight! I love you!!!"
Him: "Goodnight"
^that annoys me

Me: "I didn't think about him being gay when I added him o nFacebook. I just went to school with him."
Him: "Is he attractive to you?"
Me: "No!"
Him: "So why did you add him on facebook?!"
Me: "Because I went to high school with him and he is nice."
Him: "You told me you didn't have any gay people of Facebook!"
Me: "I meant I didn't have any gay people i banged or talked to before."
Him; "So you lied to me?"
^that annoys me


IDK what to do. He just annoys me all the time.

^ that annoys me