Does he likes me? Does he know?

[xxd0mxx]

this is why I think this...
-Back in Nov. he invited me to get dinner and he payed, he didn't let me pay, haha. This was the first time we actually got to talk and meet eachother. His friend, who is a girl messaged me telling me that he wanted to get dinner with me.
-He told me to ask him whenever I wanted to hang out with him.
-He took me to his apartment...nothing happened lol but I saw him shirtless omg! *_* he passed by me shirtless. :o
-His friend who is a girl told me he really likes me
-He took me out to dinner the 2nd time in Dec, he didn't let me pay haha
-I posted "I'm in love with somebody, What should I do?" in fb because of this spam thing and wrote said "Love you too " some of his friends liked his comment on my status hahahaha
-He so sweet & funny
-We were w/ friends & a gay topic came up and some guy said my crush like men but he said it in a funny way and I didn't believe him. They were asking me if I had a gf before or a bf haha.
-he messaged me to go out to get dinner, once he replyed w/ a smiley face and "yay!" then I said yes.
-he hugs me very tight when ever he leaves.
-he told me to text him whenever I want.
-When he sees me for the first time when we hangout, he smiles
-my first language is Spanish and he is always saying bad words to make me laugh hahaha
-He always wants to hug me whenever I leave or see him as a greet. Once we were with friends and I was sitting on the sofa so he came to me and randomly hugged me. I didn't hugged him back I felt soooo bad.

A few days ago we hangout but there was another friend of ours. They both kept asking me who I like. I was like no one. My crush asked me who's the lucky girl & I said no one, laughing Then he asked me you like guys?? I said no laughing too. When our friend left, my crush & me were alone, my crush even did a rap for me hahaha he said he wanted to hear my beautiful voice more (omg!) and he said I was shyin his rap, this was so cute lol. Then he asked me again, who I liked I said no one Lol & he said is she fat? (He's always complaining about how he gained weight. Lol So when my bus came, he hugged me very tight & told me to call him when I get home

Does he like me? He had a girlfriend before, lol. Could he be Bi? We both act very manly, lol.

[jimcrackcorn]

There are lots of straight guys who hug their friends and take them out to eat. Don't misinterpret his actions towards you as something more than friendship.

This is a common mistake that many young gay men who are in the closet experience with their affectionate straight friends.

The only way to know if your friend is into you,,, is for one of you to break the ice by admitting your gay. If you keep skirting around the topic by avoiding the truth, you will wind up with a broken heart and possibly a lost friend.

Sincerely,
Jim

[MikeW]

this is why I think this...

I agree w/ [MENTION=11919]jimcrackcorn[/MENTION] totally. It's time you fessed up. You are gay. No one cares. In fact, you're going to be a WHOOOOLE lot happier the sooner you let your fiends know what is going on inside your head. This guy is being very friendly which is very easy to mistake for sexual interest. It may be. It may not be… but if you keep HIDING, you aren't going to find out and you're going to keep crushing on someone who may NOT be available to you. MUCH better for you to crush on someone who *could be* available, yeah?

So, time to come out, guy! It's ok. It really is!

[Lexington]

Welcome to GS!

We both act very manly, lol.

If you talk like you type...

There are two ways to go about this. One is the "porn/romantic film" way, and the other is the real world way.

1. Arrange so you're hanging out at his place (or at yours). Find a reason to sit next to him. Casually put your hand on his leg. If he doesn't comment, move it up a bit. Keep going until your hand is near (or on) his dick. When he finally moves towards you, lean in and kiss him. Have mindblowing sex. Act really uncomfortable afterwards.

2. Ask. Get him alone, and say "I don't know if I'm misreading signals here, but I get a vague sense that you might be making a play for me. If so, that's totally awesome, and I'm totally cool with it. But I just wanted to clarify, because I can be pretty dense sometimes." If he denies doing so, act a bit disappointed and say "Well, that would've been cool if you had been, but OK." If he admits that he has been, say "Well, that saves me the trouble from having to make a move on you." Lean in and kiss him. Have mindblowing sex. Act totally comfortable afterwards.

Lex

[Darius]

He wants your wiener. Give it to him.

[Lexington]

^ I'm not so sure that you're right on the money here.

Lex

[Darius]

^ I'm not so sure that you're right on the money here.

Lex

You are probably right. I should have said "he wants your ass. Give it to him". The OP is obviously a bottom and his crush knows it.

[MikeW]

^^^ Whether "on the money" or not, [MENTION=21957]Darius[/MENTION] is famous for expressing the provocative!

[Darius]

^^^ Whether "on the money" or not, [MENTION=21957]Darius[/MENTION] is famous for expressing the provocative!

The CIA taught me how to be a provocateur so I could infiltrate a gay chat site and say words like "wiener" and "ass". The neglected to inform me that it would give me a boner.

[Borg69]

Slip a note into his locker.