MikeW Wrote:I'm a little disturbed by this post. Where did you come up with this "definition" and what are you getting at?
Gay men in general are usually disturbed by this for some reason....I am not really sure why...
How I know...I talked to tens of thousands of men one on one about sex every night for 20 years which is how I came to the conclusion that sexuality and sexual identity are far more complex than most other people do....
If you wait around for someone "official" to give us all the "OK" to think a certain way or accept something...you will wait a long time. These guys are maybe the most unwilling to speak about it to anyone who is not open because they get alot of crap for it....
Basically...they feel like a woman in their body...sexually... BUT they don't think they are in the wrong body. They don't "think" they are a woman...they "think" they are a man and are happy about it...which is the big difference between them and a transsexual. What we think and feel may be the same...or they may be different...
Alot of times...people dismiss the things other people feel as unimportant and useless which is kind of egotistical to assume that they know what other people experience....they don't..and they can't...unless they listen.
I know this all too well from personal experience...all too well. I learned when I worked with Mr Mass Murderer and I was getting the creeps really bad and having kinda severe physical reactions to him...and everyone else thought he was cute...because people are addicted to images and brainwashed about beauty...and they completely dismissed my feelings as bullshit and paranoia...until he was arrested and in prison....and THEN they actually needed to give me a label they were comfortable with....insisting I was "psychic". (I'm not)...like they didn't listen to me at all....ever...and I learned to accept that. Basically...people that don't understand what an empath is completely dismiss it. ...and THAT is how I "knew" something was wrong with him. I could feel it...and like the pussy boys...I am not going to wait around for people to tell me if what I feel is real or not.
This group of people will probably never have a place at the table...or a voice...they are generally quiet. From what I gathered...they don't want to change anything...or get other people to accept them. They also find men who definitely "get it"...quite easily I might add...and I have also talked to the men who like them. That is how I know what the term pussy boy means....
I think the term itself offends people alot....