04-29-2015, 07:29 PM
(Edited 04-29-2015, 07:34 PM by Cridders88.)
yousir Wrote:It is horrible, eh?
A tough one.
I know #DemFeels .
So what happens when you HAVE actually met someone? How do you act? And how do they respond?
I think my nervousness comes across quite a bit, if the other person is naturally quite chatty it puts me at ease, one guy was like that and we got on quite well but it didn't get past a few dates sadly as there wasn't really any spark there. I do still talk to him occasionally.
Another date I had with a different bloke was quite disastrous though, at least in my mind. I get so nervous and shy, I find it hard to initiate conversation, and there were loads of really AWKWARD silences, which just makes me panic even more.
Once I get to know people though, I become much calmer and more confident. It's just getting to that point.
I know it's all in my head and really I have nothing to worry about, but I just find it so tough. I am naturally a pretty anxious person, which really doesn't help matters sadly. I should probably seek therapy for it, but even the thought of that fills me with dread .
I need to take my own advice on post 2 really don't I? Lol