[MENTION=18508]East[/MENTION] ... do you remember the first words you and I exchanged here in GS? I do. I called you out on your own bigotry... your own irrational hate for making a few statements like
"I hate all ___(fill in the blank)__ people"
Okay... step back and take a breath. I'm not bringing this up to set a match to your panties. I'm bringing it up to point out that we all unintentionally backslide into becoming exactly what we do not want to be if we don't make a daily conscious effort not to. Your case of backsliding is the most common one and the easiest to fix. It's not a big deal and we all fall into it but,
You can't stop what you're doing until you realize you're doing it. All I did was help you realize it.
For me when I backslide I get called out on it by Ray, my Mom, Dad, and a couple of other friends. I work HARD not to let hate slip back into my heart or the hearts of people like me who no one would blame for having hate for some people. I can honestly say I have accomplished some things in overcoming hate.
I learned to U N D E R S T A N D people.
How many in times in here have I posted links to a short parable that teaches all everyone needs to know about understanding anyone, everyone, anything, everything? Once you begin to understand what you think you hate there's no need to hate it because understanding destroys the ignorance that's necessary for ideologies to take root and produce hate within us.
ONCE ideology takes root in ignorance inside an individual everything is completely predictable. (but you can't stop what you're doing until you realize you're doing it)
The first thing that happens is associating more people who share the same ignorance and hate as part of an ideology and less with people and authors who would disagree with you. (this leads to affirmation through circular logic," we all believe the same thing therefore we are right because we all believe the same thing."
Next, (you can't stop what you're doing until you realize you're doing it) is a slow process towards denigrating, minimizing and dehumanizing people who do not share your ideology supported hate.
Next comes the collective delusion that since everyone you associate with shares the same ideology and hate then you are the majority and you begin to assert your opinions as being superior to others.
It's not some out of the blue sky coincidence that most people who have hatred for others justifies it with their preferred ideology. Ideologies and hate are partners more often than not. It's also not some out of the blue sky coincidence that hate and ideology almost always incorporate and depend on ignorance to survive and spread.
I have every right to hate every Muslim man woman and child on this earth but I don't anymore. I'm accused of on a regular basis, not by Muslims but by US LIBERALS because what I have to say about Islam does not fit the narrative of their ideology. They do not take into consideration I have taken a lot of time replacing hatred with understanding of Muslims and Islam. "you're a hater" "you're a Islamophobe" "you must be in a Tea Party" ... their responses show a total absence of understanding (ignorance) about Islam and their immersion in an ideology.
But I'm not even to the worst part of the relationship between ideology, ignorance and hate. None of it is based upon reason or facts because reason and facts only can accepted at the expense of ignorance, hate and ideology. They cannot defend what they believe say or do with facts or reason therefore they lie, invent facts, and throw out reason in to support their ideologies.... That is as true in religion as it is politics. If you think this doesn't apply to your own religious or political affiliations then you are deceiving yourself. You are putting what you believe ahead of facts and reason (you can't stop what you're doing until you realize you're doing it)
[COLOR="Blue"]Here's all you need to know about understanding.
A wise man received a university professor who came to inquire about the nature of understanding. The wise man served tea. He poured his visitor's cup full, and then kept on pouring. The professor watched the overflow until he no longer could restrain himself. "It is overfull. No more will go in!"
"Like this cup," the wise man said, "you are full of your own opinions and speculations. How can I show you anything about understanding unless you first empty your cup?"[/COLOR]