Steve Wrote:....we're kind of perfect bookends with a great story between us.
That is SO beautifully said!
I'm not re-quoting all the rest of your absolutely amazing post. I agree with everything you're saying.
I'm going to point out, though, that it is PRECISELY BECAUSE you are right on target that what you've said deserves a MUCH LARGER AUDIENCE than the few of us who visit this forum.
It is interesting; I feel very much right now with this thread as I did when I was trying to get the couples group I was a part of to document its process and create a framework for others who might want to create such groups. I saw then, as I'm seeing now right here, that there is a huge NEED for this kind of -- well, it is support but, indeed, lets call it "education".
And why not call it that, that's exactly what it is. And I think you're absolutely right to want to minimize the "mental health" aspect of this. This is about LEARNING RELATIONSHIP SKILLS, not psyching people out.
So, seriously, gentlemen, IF you actually want to have a sociological impact upon the gay community, you'll not just spout off great ideas in a rather obscure forum. You'll figure out a way to band together to MAKE SOMETHING ACTUALLY HAPPEN.
This is always the stickler with any "great idea". They take energy... actual life energy... to manifest. They take our time. They require us to think things through and develop an action plan that actually gets acted upon. It may require learning things... For example, how many of you know anything about BECOMING A NON PROFIT EDUCATIONAL INSTITUTION? Or... have delved into the pluses and minuses of having the kind of education we're talking about BE PROFITABLE for some? Or... does one take the idea to the already existing "personal growth" community and train "facilitators" to orchestrate interactive, participatory groups?
Doing anything like this other than just talking about it is as much work as a relationship, maybe more. :eek:
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