08-20-2015, 01:27 AM
BabyPolarBear Wrote:Okay soI really ..really loved that post..
Life= 1st look up quotes from nurses about people on there death bead and there regrets 2nd Happiness is your #1 goal in life "i want a nice car/house" no you want happiness "i want a job that pays alot" GOD NO never work somewhere you hate 3rd live well below your means if you can you can get used to any living situation with time
Sex= If you don't know about STDs and AIDs I'm going to punch you in the dick 2nd if all you want is sex (you are 17) you might as well be in a relationship you will get WAY WAY WAAAAAYYYY more sex that way 3rd always use protection not only for you but your partner(s)
Dating= 1st love is all about a physiological consent called "Pair Bonding" (google it) here is some advice on how to strengthen that Bond : a 30+ sec hug every time you see your partner (or however often you can see each other but at least one time a day) REALLY makes the bond strong 2nd do something with or for them as often as you can this includes the touching we just talked about 3rd you need to have a times through out your relationship when you talk to each other in a "safe space" where you both remove your selves from the rest of the world for that conversation and that conversation can be about ANYTHING with no retaliation "your mother is a cunt to me" "you don't kiss me as much as you use to" "do we still want to be in this relationship"
you will get more advice im sure from other but those where the top things i could think of off the top of my head
It actually answer a few questions I had about random things..