Anyone can nitpick their relationship apart, find things to bitch about or that they'd like to be different. Even people in the happiest of relationships can do that, and make themselves miserable in the process.
I have been fortunate enough, with [MENTION=20938]Gideon[/MENTION], to be given more than I ever thought I'd want or need, yeah? It can't get more perfect than that.
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I'm a : Gay Man in a Monogamous Gay Relationship
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Gemini
Mood: None
The one I'm in now.
...is that specific enough?
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I'm not too interested in a serious relationship right now in my life. But when I'm older and ready, my ideal relationship would be one with an independent, self assured man. I'm not interested in clingy men who need all of my attention or can't function as an individual - I want to be with a man who has his own fully developed life with a strong vision of what he wants to do with it. I want a relationship that pushes both of us to grow as individuals and as partners. We should support each other. I'm not looking to be taken care of or to take care of another grown man. We should view each other as equals. I'm not about sexual roles and neither should he. I want to raise a family, so he'd need to be committed to that too. My family needs to like him.
And he should have good abs.
And be John Legend.
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The one I have.....30 years of perfection....
"Perfection" includes all the messy stuff....ups and downs...flaws....
Reality... with all the ups and downs...is part of the equation for me....and reality is a necessary part of any perfect relationship.
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