01-22-2016, 08:29 PM
supasyd Wrote:Sorry [MENTION=23058]IanSaysHi[/MENTION] I appreciate the sentiment but that's really not how I feel at all. I'm not trying to find the one. I'm trying to concentrate on myself already but I can't help my feelings getting in the way. i have a crush but i also just really miss the feelings that cone with being in a relationship. Online Dating really pissed me off I found nothing on any of the sites. I'm not trying to be negative I am just being honest
You're honestly just being negative...I can feel that I've been honest telling you everything I hate about myself...there's plenty I could write on... Does it mean I should feel that way though? No, not at all... I mean think about guys who are 400 lbs and gay...pretty hard for them to find someone special... I have a friend who is in that situation... I feel terrible about my body right now and I feel that in the past is the reason why guys don't want to date me or chat me up on whatever app... maybe it is, may it isn't... So I just just have to try to dismiss those thoughts and not let it get to me or let it get me down. Even if someone didn't talk to me because they thought I was unattractive, well screw them -- they probably weren't looking for a relationship anyway, people are full of shit...and all the guys that have let you down should only be showing you there wasn't anything about them that made them worthy of YOU... Don't feel bad because it didn't work out, be glad you didn't end up with a wanker (as folks in the UK say)...
Quit concentrating on yourself, I mean that by quit looking from the outside in... Quit worrying about how others might perceive you, think of you or whether they love you back or not.
You have been given the logic, work through it in your head...put it to practice....
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