Not Lasting Long...

[yar]

Actually you are right. There is a more serious side to this. The greater energy of younger people aside, what sometimes works is to try to train yourself not to orgasm so quickly. When you are masturbating try stopping before you come and letting yourself calm down a bit before you carry on. Do this a few times if you can. A bit of self control is generally appreciated and does give you longer to enjoy yourself.

Of course when you are older, enjoying sex for hours on end is a mixed blessing

Hallelujah

[The Virgin]

it can't be helped. there are people like you. i've had sexed someone before who has the same issues. before i suck someone, i kind of play with it first (caressing with my hand, massaging the balls/head, teasing it thru gentle bites) and while i was doin' that, the guy suddenly explodes, even before i intended to suck him. what happens? i told him "look, i'm really hungry for some dick up my lips so i want you to hold on for as long as you can, never mind the "very sensitive, tingly" feel cause i am going to suck you as i planned and intended. i don't care whether you just ejaculated, that penis will be inside my mouth, like it or not". ending? as i was doing him, he was all "argh, ouch, be careful, oh god!.....", he was sure uncomfortable but it serves as a lesson for him to hold it longer next time.