Does what porn you watch indicate your sexuality?

[metalmikey]

Or at least give any indications.

First of all, I feel a little bad, but here is the story. I went to a friends of mine last night I have known 6 years. He's a few years younger than me 25. Earlier on in our friendship I did like him, but he insisted he wasn't gay, but we have been good friends. I have never thought of him as straight, he's just never seemed it. He's an attractive guy and hasn't had a girlfriend since I've known him.

So I was at his drinking, it got to around 2AM and he said he was sleepy so said when I get tired just lie down beside him. I stayed up a bit, just online on his computer. I feel bad now for what I next did. I decided to have a little snoop and see his downloads. I was shocked by a lot of trans/shemale porn. Not one real woman in sight. Just trans on trans or with guys. I have nothing against this porn but it doesn't do it for me. But would it a straight male? I don't see it.

Is liking that type of porn an indication he may be bisexual or bicurious? He knows I am gay, but hes never really spoke about his sexuality openly. Obviously I won't say 'oh I seen your porn collection' but it fascinates me, would a straight guy be into this?

[LJay]

Anyone could be into anything. If a person checks out a book from the library on Calvinistic theology It could simply mean that he is curious about it, not that he plans to begin teaching it.

The same goes for your friend's internet history.

And by the way. No snoopee. Not nicee.

[MickTheMousie]

Nope, one of the girls in my class watches gay porn and a lot of hetro guys watch lesbian porn so i dont think so

[Irusu]

Nope, one of the girls in my class watches gay porn and a lot of hetro guys watch lesbian porn so i dont think so

Yeah.. erm I'd say she is "special" and the vast majority of girls do not watch gay male porn and guys watching lesbian porn indicates they are not gay

Yes OP guy who betrayed his friends trust, that indicate your friend probably gets a hard on for shemale porn and probably not that they are researching for a book about transgenderism.. or that they are "curious"

just to take things back to actuality, people will watch the porn that suits their sexual tastes.. except for the occasional fluffy haired artsy fartsy type that will find symbolism or some shit in everything .

[Darius]

Sure, the kind of porn we watch is an indication of our sexuality. He likes chicks with dicks, so he must be okay with both chicks and dicks. Next time you go over to his house, wear a bra.

[Bhp91126]

If I were to make any assumptions based on your found porn-evidence I'd say: Your friend is interested in dick, but not in men. Happens. He won't be interested in a gay relationship. With you or any other guy.

40 lashes with a wet noodle for your snooping

[MikeW]

...I was shocked by a lot of trans/shemale porn. Not one real woman in sight. Just trans on trans or with guys. I have nothing against this porn but it doesn't do it for me. But would it a straight male? I don't see it....

Interesting. I have a gym buddy acquaintance. Now this guy is a total Tren head. IDK if you know what that is. Suffice it to say, he is 24 years old and is built like an ox. Seriously, he's about the height of the short guy in the picture below, but when he's running a cycle he is (proportionately) as big as the tall guy.



SO... one day he and I were having a talk in the locker room. Him with his shirt off and me secretly salivating. I ask him, "Do you have a girl friend?" He says, "No... I don't think any woman would want me."

"Why do you say that, you're a fine looking young man."

"Naw, its that I've totally screwed up my fertility. I'm permanently on TRT (testosterone replacement therapy), so I figure no woman who wanted children would have anything to do with me."

I was giving this some thought when he went on...

"I don't get the whole GAY thing, but..."

At that moment I interrupted him, not sure what he was going to say next.

"Before you go on... you do know I'm gay, right?"

His eyes bugged out and he said, "NO FUCKING WAY! YOU'RE GAY?!"

I says, "yep. 100% HOMO. But you were about to say??"

"Oh, yeah, that... Well, I'm not gay but I find myself attracted to M2F trannies. I've been watching them in porn and stuff and, IDK, I'm thinking I might like to date one."

WELL this blew me the fuck away. We had quite a conversation about this.

This all to say you just never know what is going on in someone else's head.

You're right, confessing that you looked at his porn could be, IDK, touchy. I wouldn't like it... but then again, unless you got on my case about it, I wouldn't shoot you or end our friendship for having done it. If you're not judgmental about it, fine with me. Your friend might react very differently, though. SO... hmmm.. wondering if there is some way that at some point (that wouldn't look suspicious) you brought up the subject. See if he fesses up to it. Could be interesting.

[meridannight]

does the porn you watch indicate your sexuality -- i'd be inclined to say, yes, of course. at least to an approximation it does. gay men probably watch gay porn more than any other type of porn. so, that is a pretty good indicator. although, there might be exceptions and circumstances where this is different.

but in your particular case -- i don't really see how a straight guy watching male to female transsexuals is suggestive of homosexual desire. it is a weak sign at best. if he was interested in men sexually, he would be watching gay porn. not some in-between undefinable version of it. and i think that answers it, really.

[larafan25]

I'm gay and I only watch straight porn.

xoxoxo

[TigerLover]

Oooh fascinating subject.

Oh and he could be straight as a die and still like trans porn.