05-12-2016, 10:15 AM
hey guys
this guys ive been chatting to a bit over the past week or so, i asked him out for drinks last week and he said he couldn't, so this week i asked him for drinks on a specific date (after work thursday, or friday night) - it's thursday night now.
he said he has gym after work so couldn't do it, but that he would love to though. 'let me figure something out' was what he said, and i was like ok cool let me know.
so that was last night. today i havent heard from him, and im just overthinking, whether that was a 'no i dont want to meet you'... or maybe yea i do want to meet you but im working on my schedule.
What next steps should i take guys? Ive been told to leave it and let him get back to me (and totally forget him if he doesnt message me back), OR if he doesn't message me in a few days to give him a message and see how he is.
Thanks guys
this guys ive been chatting to a bit over the past week or so, i asked him out for drinks last week and he said he couldn't, so this week i asked him for drinks on a specific date (after work thursday, or friday night) - it's thursday night now.
he said he has gym after work so couldn't do it, but that he would love to though. 'let me figure something out' was what he said, and i was like ok cool let me know.
so that was last night. today i havent heard from him, and im just overthinking, whether that was a 'no i dont want to meet you'... or maybe yea i do want to meet you but im working on my schedule.
What next steps should i take guys? Ive been told to leave it and let him get back to me (and totally forget him if he doesnt message me back), OR if he doesn't message me in a few days to give him a message and see how he is.
Thanks guys