05-26-2016, 10:46 AM
There are a number of ways to handle this situation, but many are likely to cause distrust between you and him. If you take an aggressive or passive-aggressive approach, you risk losing him. Some of those approaches include:
1. Deleting the app from his phone yourself
2. Opening the app while he is in the shower to see the pics and messages (incoming and outgoing)
3. Turning on the notification sound so that he realizes you know the app is still installed (and you can count the number of messages coming in within a certain amount of time).
4. Setting up a profile of your own, to see if he notices/cares.
5. Insisting that he sit down with you and show you his grindr messages.
Perhaps the best option is to remind him of your past, express your feelings and again ask him to delete the app. If he cannot respect your feelings enough to do that, you need to evaluate your relationship with him. Any man of any character at all would delete the app.
I have yet to find a special someone in my life, so when it happens I am not going to do anything to risk losing it. Strong relationships are built upon trust and compromise.
1. Deleting the app from his phone yourself
2. Opening the app while he is in the shower to see the pics and messages (incoming and outgoing)
3. Turning on the notification sound so that he realizes you know the app is still installed (and you can count the number of messages coming in within a certain amount of time).
4. Setting up a profile of your own, to see if he notices/cares.
5. Insisting that he sit down with you and show you his grindr messages.
Perhaps the best option is to remind him of your past, express your feelings and again ask him to delete the app. If he cannot respect your feelings enough to do that, you need to evaluate your relationship with him. Any man of any character at all would delete the app.
I have yet to find a special someone in my life, so when it happens I am not going to do anything to risk losing it. Strong relationships are built upon trust and compromise.