06-20-2016, 04:49 PM
bryyzy Wrote:Age. I won't go with anyone +5yrs than myself. They can be hot asf and I would reject him based on his age. Sounds bad I know but that's how I am. I just don't need an older daddy type, let him go drool over someone else for all I care
Well when I was younger I was kind of put off with guy much more than 5 years older. You know that's fine... Makes sense, you want to stick to guys your age....nothing wrong with that.
With me the older I get the less I worry about the numbers. That being said I do have my limits. Like if someone is 18 I don't give them the time of day... Like you being 20, sorry, no can do. Not because 20 year olds aren't hot or whatever, It is just that guys under 25-ish are too immature in most cases.
My suggestion would be to loosen up on the age numbers, not saying you should date grandpa or anything but if they're 27, good looking, not a prick, why not date them? I mean I have seen guys who are 21 (or say they're 21) and look almost 40, because smoke, do drugs, or just not blessed with good looks. Someone who is a couple years outside your range isn't going to have wrinkly balls or anything lol
Not saying you should change your preferences in men, just know that people and age is not something that is concrete. There are guys who are immature at 40 and guys who are very mature at your age.
That being said, being at 20, I think it is perfectly normal not to date someone over 25 but I wouldn't let it be a sharp cutoff either. There's a bigger difference in people between 20 and 30 than 30 and 40, 40 and 50...the older you get the less it will matter.
Don't believe me, if this site still exists in 20 years (hopefully so), check back here and see your posts and reflect back on things.
Just saying all this because when I was your age I couldn't picture myself with someone 10 years older than me and now that I'm ten years older the age gap increases upwards, just doesn't mean I would date someone 15 years older than me, just not happening.
Hopefully that makes sense, not trying to tell you how to live your life.
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