Awkward Dating Question

[TwisttheLeaf]

I don't know what's wrong with your legs, yeah? I don't see anything about it on your profile.

That said? Sex doesn't necessarily have to be relegated to only your home and your bed. The other guy will probably have a place. And there's.... less private spots. As well as motels/hotels, etc. It's not necessarily a "home only" activity.

[Cheet0V90]

I don't know what's wrong with your legs, yeah? I don't see anything about it on your profile.

That said? Sex doesn't necessarily have to be relegated to only your home and your bed. The other guy will probably have a place. And there's.... less private spots. As well as motels/hotels, etc. It's not necessarily a "home only" activity.

Yeah, IK isn't on my profile, as my leg muscles issues don't define me as a person, my muscles in legs just have a high amount of tone, to the point where it makes walking difficult, along with fact that for a time now, my balance is/has been pretty shot, so I use crutches to walk when not on my mobility scooter/wheelchair for maneuvering the house here...

Oh yeah, that's true, just have to find a reason to leave esp if they are home. Just would be awkward BTW them and I sadly...

[TwisttheLeaf]

Ahh, yeah. The mobility issue could be a bit of a problem. I'm sure there's ways to get around and/or overcome the obstacle to get what you want, though.

[Cheet0V90]

Yeah, I figure that a hotel/motel anymore would at least be ADA so could just roll on in as opposed to tripping over my own two feet...

If only I could find someone who'd be fine chilling out/making out/oral if it went there, and even further if we were feeling it, but who'd not be super pissed if the last step didn't necessarily happen, or at least if my butt was to possibly remain "unpenetrated..?"

[kindy64]

be up front about it all and you shouldn't have a problem.

[Cheet0V90]

Oh okay, yeah great point. Will do whenever I get the chance to go thru with that...

[artyboy]

Oh okay, yeah great point. Will do whenever I get the chance to go thru with that...

Hey fella, I'm disabled too. I've found just being up front with guys about your disabled helps a lot. I now just mentioned it in the "About Me" part of dating profiles, and I've most guys I've talked or dated read it once then we get on with the real business or flirting and then sex if I'm lucky lol.

I'm over that sort of thing and after a relationship, but I'm just upfront with guys with it.

Have fun and keep safe.

[Ibex]

i remember discussing virginity here in this forum and most of them would agree that boys lose their virginity the first time that they ejaculate ..

Lol no.
Then any guy who fapped at the age of 10 would've lost their virginity

Nah, you have to stick it into someone's hole for not to be a virgin.

[artyboy]

Lol no.
Then any guy who fapped at the age of 10 would've lost their virginity

Nah, you have to stick it into someone's hole for not to be a virgin.

What about the other way around?

[Ibex]

What about the other way around?

You mean if the guy you fuck doesn't get to fuck you?
Hmm, well since having sex is the defintion of loosing your virginity. You loose it if you're the one reciving the D of course.
Oral sex, hmm. I wouldn't count it as loosing virginity. If so, then I lost mine at the age of 6