Getting messed about with on dating sites

[kindy64]

To tell you the truth we haven't flirted like that. I have a feeling he wants me to though.

Isn't that the point of being on a dating site and connecting with someone, that you have some feeling that you want to be with another person on there.

[InbetweenDreams]

So sounds like he might be a decent guy.... So if things are going well chatting just allow more time, might be slow at things, free time, etc. Just a matter of what you want out of all this. Give him more time and see where things go....might not be until near the holidays...not sure about UK holiday observations but here we pretty much have a fall break of some sort, thanksgiving and then Christmas...

[artyboy]

So sounds like he might be a decent guy.... So if things are going well chatting just allow more time, might be slow at things, free time, etc. Just a matter of what you want out of all this. Give him more time and see where things go....might not be until near the holidays...not sure about UK holiday observations but here we pretty much have a fall break of some sort, thanksgiving and then Christmas...

There is a half term break coming up I think, Christmas is the next one after that.

[InbetweenDreams]

Well maybe see about a date during one of those times....

[artyboy]

Maybe.

Hmmm he's stopped doing x's at the end of sentences now lol. Oh dear

[InbetweenDreams]

You mean the XOXOXO crap? Eh I wouldn't worry so much about that. I mean I wouldn't anyway...but I don't know the guy to know the difference.

Well hang in there, don't let it eat your mind...although that is a challenge at times.

[artyboy]

Well I'm not messaging him tonight. I think he likes to play hard to get lol. I don't play by those rules lol.

[InbetweenDreams]

Well I'm not messaging him tonight. I think he likes to play hard to get lol. I don't play by those rules lol.

Me either. Might be busy too, who knows. I wouldn't worry too much about it. You really can't know for sure until you meet someone in person.

As for the hard to get stuff. I get why people do it but I also think it boils down to if you like them why stop. What makes you think he is playing hard to get?

I will make a disclaimer, I would take relationship advice I give with a grain of salt. I am 30 and single mind you lol... I don't want to be that guy who is single and being a Liz Lemon (30 Rock - TV Show) telling everyone "That's a dealbreaker!"

[artyboy]

I'm not taking it to seriously.

I just miss cuddles haha

[artyboy]

Grrrrr I want to message him, but I know I shouldn't lol