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InbetweenDreams · 11-21-2016, 07:18 PM

Ibex Wrote:Gaysir.

And about the thread.
Most people could actually date a disability person.

That's very much true...

I will say, which kind of relates on many other things. It does seem that us gay guys, I can't really speak for women, are quite picky and judgmental. No fems, no fats, masc only...got guys who don't want to date over race, religion...too tall , too short...too hairy, too old or too young... Oh got health problems? Why don't you take better care of yourself!

I guess in my particular case I'm a fatty for most guys, oh and now that I'm 30...too old. I mean the guys who are on grindr, at least around here are the worst offenders of being judgmental and it's the same with POF or whatever.

That's why I really hate putting myself out there. If I give away everything that is "wrong" with me then yeah gives people less reason to strike up a conversation. But if you get someone engaged and is actually interested in you then things like my weight don't matter that much unless they're that shallow.

All I can say, I'm 30 and also single and also seldom I get anyone who actually wants to date.. I have got a lot of "oh work called and money takes precedence" or the classic no shows and shit. A bunch of twats I say...

Bottom line is don't let some rotten shit get you down because they see the word "disability," imo your disability is hardly an excuse for someone to not want to date you. I mean if they find you to be a prick or whatever then fine, but not over that.

artyboy · 11-21-2016, 07:23 PM

Im starting to think guy think Im ugly then as Ive removed any refercence to being disabled and still no one is messaging me back after Ive said hey to them.

Is there now another way of say hi to strangers that I dont know of lol?

11-21-2016, 07:29 PM

artyboy Wrote:Im starting to think guy think Im ugly then as Ive removed any refercence to being disabled and still no one is messaging me back after Ive said hey to them.

Is there now another way of say hi to strangers that I dont know of lol?

I seem to get a lot of blokes sending me photos of their junk as a way of saying 'hello'

Apparently I am supposed to be appreciative, excited and willing to continue with a dirty convo.

You could try that Smile

lol

artyboy · 11-21-2016, 07:32 PM

deephiance Wrote:I seem to get a lot of blokes sending me photos of their junk as a way of saying 'hello'

Apparently I am supposed to be appreciative, excited and willing to continue with a dirty convo.

You could try that lol

Its not one of them sort of dating sites lol!

They guys seemed to be looking for some sort of superman or something.

11-22-2016, 01:41 AM

I dont know the extent of your disability and what you can do for fun. Do you have any hobbies? What do you do for fun? Maybe you can find somebody with a common interest and build from there. You're not a bad looking guy, but I think you should grow your hair out a little bit.

Gemini · 11-22-2016, 02:08 AM

Doc Wrote:I dont know the extent of your disability and what you can do for fun. Do you have any hobbies? What do you do for fun? Maybe you can find somebody with a common interest and build from there. You're not a bad looking guy, but I think you should grow your hair out a little bit.

This is good advice, I met one guy through hockey (I play in a city league) and another at a one day class I went to at a photography place. I mean, you've got nothing to lose. Even if you don't meet a guy, you'll be doing something you enjoy and maybe meet people who could be friends.

BTW, I agree, you're a good looking guy Elkgrin

artyboy · 11-22-2016, 02:57 AM

Well I can just about walk, if I go down I can't get up off the floor without help of a couple of people and I can't do steps any more which is a bumer.
I'm a car guy, I go to track days with a small car Club I'm with. I'm looking at getting my own car soon, liking the idea of a 4x4 something to no worry about scratching or denting to much (off roading Wink

) I got a car on lease atm.
I used to be an artist even got a degree in fine art lol, love to find a group of artists join them etc.

Not sure about growing out my hair, my dad has long hair don't really want to look like him lol.

11-22-2016, 03:16 AM

Get a pick truck man, they're chick magnets, if you have a degree why dont you teach? A teacher should have no problem picking up a guy.

artyboy · 11-22-2016, 03:22 AM

Doc Wrote:Get a pick truck man, they're chick magnets, if you have a degree why dont you teach? A teacher should have no problem picking up a guy.

4x4s is what we call trucks over here lol.

Meet a few farmer lads that like 4x4s around where Iive lol.

Since leaving the EU (planning on) the funding for arts has gone out the window so there isn't much a call for art teachers.

11-22-2016, 03:31 AM

I thought you guys called them lorries? What kind of trucks do you have? Are there alot of older American trucks?