Is this normal and general suff

[Camfer]

Your new problem is finding a guy to date, not worrying about how out you are.

[princealbertofb]

Hello, [MENTION=24108]Doc[/MENTION], and to GaySpeak. Stress, depression, some medicines, psychological stuff, fatigue, wrong kind of food, all sorts of things can come and bother a man's libido, and we're fragile creatures in that respect.

I don't know if your finally admitting it to yourself that you're 99% gay has contributed to your lack of desire, but it could be that you are now a little more at peace with yourself, although I think you are still putting a lot of stress on yourself to tell SOMEONE at last. Just let the idea go and one day, it'll just come pouring out of your mouth as if it were the most natural thing. You've got to give yourself time to 'own' it.

I found that once I'd admitted it to myself seriously, I also started looking at the world differently.

After all, we don't need to be sexed 100% of the time ie constantly. It would be good to think that we can focus on other things like life in general, right?

Be kind to yourself and don't beat yourself up about being what you might consider cowardly. Maybe the testosterone levels have fallen a bit. Coming out is still one big thing / hurdle in a gay man's life. It might be more important, in fact, to be able to tell a man that you find him attractive, or that you love him, if that's what you're going for.

Take care.

[Doc]

This post has more to do with general stuff.

I had to kill three mice today, with the colder weather here they decided to move in with me. Ive killed dozens of rats in the past with poisons, traps, brooms, rifles, and I even used a knife once because it was the only thing I had handy. I hate rats they are destructive, miserable, little cocksuckers and I dont feel bad killing them at all. I felt so terrible killing these mice, they are so very cute. It sucks but it was me or the mice and they had to go. Do any of you guys hate killing mice?

[MikeW]

I had to kill three mice today...

pour DEADMAUsies :eek:

[deephiance]

This post has more to do with general stuff.

I had to kill three mice today, with the colder weather here they decided to move in with me. Ive killed dozens of rats in the past with poisons, traps, brooms, rifles, and I even used a knife once because it was the only thing I had handy. I hate rats they are destructive, miserable, little cocksuckers and I dont feel bad killing them at all. I felt so terrible killing these mice, they are so very cute. It sucks but it was me or the mice and they had to go. Do any of you guys hate killing mice?

could have just got a pet Carpet Python, or even a Diamond Back Python

[Doc]

I think I'll stick with victor traps.

[artyboy]

I think I'll stick with victor traps.

My cat would be better, but he is looking for work at the moment lol!

[Doc]

I got another this morning, my neighbor god rid of an old shed and I think it stirred up a mouse nest.

[Camfer]

I think I'll stick with victor traps.

If those traps work for you, great.

On the farm we prefer mini t-rex traps. They are easier to set and more durable. They are strong enough that one even took out a rat!

[Doc]

[MENTION=20941]Camfer[/MENTION] Where do you get the traps? Are mice and rats bad on the farm? Do you live in the middle of nowhere, I ask becuase Im looking to move away from people and I was hoping to avoid the problems of city living. I live in an urban area and if your neighbor has mice and rats then you do to, its sucks because Im a very clean person and I dont leave food out, but it seems like they sleep at my house and eat at everybody else's. My house isnt infested mind you, but I have to be very proactive to keep it that way, seems like every few months some vermin try to make my house theyre home.