Meeting a nice guy!!

[Zen]

Ok im a bit ducking frunk! This question has been asked before. How would a guy go about meeting a decent guy when he was ready to?!! By that I mean not hook ups but emotional connections- can this be done by online dating or maybe a social group. Like I say, im still working stuff out but, for the near future I want a guy that I can really connect with- how have you lucky guys done this? What would unlucky guys recommend I avoid? Im a nice guy, broad of shoulder, tall, although somewhat roughened looking through a life lived! Haha! Any advice is genuinely appreciated!! Stu :-)

[Zen]

Even after a drink I can see I sound like an eejit but my heart is in the right place ;-)

[LJay]

You get yourself into situations where people can talk to you and you can talk to them. You sure don't sound like an "eejit" here, so you'll do all right. Are there MeetUp groups where you are?

[Cuddly]

I found my husbear online, so apparently that works too. It requires luck though.

[Zen]

You get yourself into situations where people can talk to you and you can talk to them. You sure don't sound like an "eejit" here, so you'll do all right. Are there MeetUp groups where you are?

Bless you [MENTION=20933]LJay[/MENTION] humoring a drunk! I live pretty rural these days but, yes, I do believe there are some! If I could get up the nerve to join one that would be one big step mate! Sometime soon I'm sure I will! :-))

[Zen]

I found my husbear online, so apparently that works too. It requires luck though.

Ah nice one [MENTION=20359]Cuddly[/MENTION]! What site did you use, was it a 'match' type one?

[Cuddly]

Ah nice one [MENTION=20359]Cuddly[/MENTION]! What site did you use, was it a 'match' type one?

Silverdaddies.com or something - probably not your cup of tea
No idea if the site still exists. It was 10 years ago.

[Zen]

Silverdaddies.com or something - probably not your cup of tea
No idea if the site still exists. It was 10 years ago.

Thanks mate, it's one to bear in mind! :-)

[RomanticMan]

Ok im a bit ducking frunk! This question has been asked before. How would a guy go about meeting a decent guy when he was ready to?!! By that I mean not hook ups but emotional connections- can this be done by online dating or maybe a social group. Like I say, im still working stuff out but, for the near future I want a guy that I can really connect with- how have you lucky guys done this? What would unlucky guys recommend I avoid? Im a nice guy, broad of shoulder, tall, although somewhat roughened looking through a life lived! Haha! Any advice is genuinely appreciated!! Stu :-)

Hello Zen,
Decent guys are everywhere but you need to pick them up among non-decent ones. All dating apps are just porn sites except for a few people. [MENTION=24118]deephiance[/MENTION] has a nice word for it, which I still remember ''all sites and the people are same under a different logo.
I met a decent guy but it just didnt work.
What to avoid;
- People who takes their feet photos (I'm sorry that you have feet photos. your feet are nice hehe) But some wears dirty suck etc...
- Avoid from people who shows BDSM pictures, those are generally not into relationship as the way you said.
- Avoid from people who directly asks ''what do you look for?'' or ''asl''.
- (this one is a personal one) I'm not feminine but I avoid people who behave feminines like they're girls. They write on their profile ''I want a real man, not man looking females''

and when you say ''roughened'', you mean a face with many acne marks? if it's wrinkles, some even find it hot.

[IanSaysHi]

Tinder. It's a bit superficial, but actually nicer than Grindr in my experience. Also plenty of fish.

Also being single and eating cake is fun. Ian's top tip right there.