Is my best friend gay

[Dan1980]

Sorry to hear that. I've had the same tragedy back in high school. However, I think at least by telling him, I know that guy was not worthy of my love or friendship since he wouldn't even talk to me.

In comparison, I told a straight friend that I liked him years ago. He didn't overreact and say that he was flattered. Now we are still great friends and talk to each other regularly. I think that's what friends are for.

I am glad your still friends with the straight guy.

[deephiance]

The solution to your 'problem' is rather obvious.

[Confuzzled4]

I don't see any reason for you to think that he's gay honestly, but pursuing a friend who's sexuality is unknown is very dangerous. You risk a lot of heartache, and I've learned the best thing to do is to focus on guys who you know are gay.