07-20-2009, 02:29 PM
been out nearly a year (august)........bit late to be postin my story lol but thought id tell you all how it was.....
Well i had feelings for fellas for 4-5months before i came out....so did take a little while to get get the confidence to come out to my family.....
Orginally i came out bi.....but i am gay now (although i not said anything mot people have clicked on)
Anyways i didnt come out directly to parents i asked me sister since my sister already knew & im very close to my sister......anyways she told me parents & they took it ok...
My mum said the 'duh i already knew' speech lol...but my dad was a bit hesitant at first but after about 3 or 4 days he seemed fine....
I also have 3 brothers (1 younger & 2 older) now my young brother just laughed at me but then i dont expect him to be serious about it @ his age.......my eldest brother made a few jokes about it (in a way tht seemed he didnt know what to say to me) but eventually told me he didnt really care if i was gay.....
My other brother was the worst though.....he's in the b&h (rasict,homophobic ect) anyway i had to tell him as i had told every1 else.......so we were commin back from a mates house & were nearly back at my house & i just came out with it....he stopped his car in the middle of the road....turnt round & said your not serious are you....i replied yep & all he could say was your a f..king discrase tothe world your sick......but since then he has kind of accepted it to a certain point....
anyways thats my story
Well i had feelings for fellas for 4-5months before i came out....so did take a little while to get get the confidence to come out to my family.....
Orginally i came out bi.....but i am gay now (although i not said anything mot people have clicked on)
Anyways i didnt come out directly to parents i asked me sister since my sister already knew & im very close to my sister......anyways she told me parents & they took it ok...
My mum said the 'duh i already knew' speech lol...but my dad was a bit hesitant at first but after about 3 or 4 days he seemed fine....
I also have 3 brothers (1 younger & 2 older) now my young brother just laughed at me but then i dont expect him to be serious about it @ his age.......my eldest brother made a few jokes about it (in a way tht seemed he didnt know what to say to me) but eventually told me he didnt really care if i was gay.....
My other brother was the worst though.....he's in the b&h (rasict,homophobic ect) anyway i had to tell him as i had told every1 else.......so we were commin back from a mates house & were nearly back at my house & i just came out with it....he stopped his car in the middle of the road....turnt round & said your not serious are you....i replied yep & all he could say was your a f..king discrase tothe world your sick......but since then he has kind of accepted it to a certain point....
anyways thats my story
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Let's hope your brother grows up a little and finds some compassion.
Libra
Are things okay now or?
