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Too long didn't read all that enema crap. Anyway, back to the question, "should guys?"
I think we should reframe the question, should women?
I think the answer is No. I don't think a man, woman or any person should have to do anything to affirm their gender. Of course I guess it depends on the context of the question. I got the "a real man doesn't cry" vibe from this and I think there are always issues when making broad strokes like that.
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There is a lot of that unspoken crap, that men do XYZ and women do ABC. Like the lack of pockets on womens clothing and suits and ties for men, what the fuck. I mean who wants to wear a god damn suit in July and a pound of hair product. Its all an illusion. Like I'm pretty boring when it comes to clothes, but it doesn't bother me what other people do. I can't understand what it is about people that makes everyone think that someone should or shouldn't be able to do something. I get when it comes to common sense things like you shouldn't drive 200 kmh you might wreck and hurt someone, but does you wearing a dress harm anyone? No, so it shouldn't fuckin matter. Makes me think of North Carolina's dumbass infamous "bathroom bill" back in 2016 I think it was. These conservatives literally thought that male sex offenders were going to dress like women in droves and hide out in women's restrooms and all this crazy shit that never happened. And you know the two perverts that did you know they all tried to go look see! Like that one rouge drag queen, see! No story time for you!
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Well too lazy to look for the actual bill but the bill stated that you have to use the bathroom matching your biological gender... So what began to happen in the state is if someone saw someone who didn't look the part would create a scene. Even a relative of mine who is female was harassed by some old lady because she didn't look enough like a "woman" being told to use the men's restroom. This was, if I remember, around 2016, pretty sure the bill was undone but this sort of stuff seems to keep coming up in different states.
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