Term Question

[Rach]

Hey everyone.  I have a question about self identifying to others who don't know me, especially online.  

I understand that in many gay relationships, there is one who is more masculine, and one who takes on a more feminine role.  I used to call myself a "femboy", because I was a gay male who was quite feminine.  But very few of us have the ability to remain young forever, and as an adult male, I just cannot get along with the 'boy' in the term femboy, because I left my boy years behind when i went into my teens.  Femman just doesn't sound good, lol.  

Anyhow, in a gay relationship, I would be the feminine one, (in those types of relationships ofcourse)  I keep my hair long and i often do my makeup, i wear feminine jewelry and feminine clothing and happily take on a feminine, submissive role and I definitely have the more feminine body type.

But what would be the term for that?    

Thanks for any insights

[Velvet Mouth]

Femboi? As in, "boi" instead of "boy". It implies a more submissive character or role, instead of "boy" which implies just being young.

[Rach]

Femboi? As in, "boi" instead of "boy". It implies a more submissive character or role, instead of "boy" which implies just being young.

Uggh..  how did i miss that.   Thankyou

[Velvet Mouth]

Femboi? As in, "boi" instead of "boy". It implies a more submissive character or role, instead of "boy" which implies just being young.

Uggh..  how did i miss that.   Thankyou

Hope it works for you.

I was quite pleased to discover the term "Side" as a response to the false dichotomy "Are you top or bottom?"